Yes. That was me trying to be 'blunt but not asshole', but I don't expect RandomOTP to care. Moment someone pops up who actually has knowledge in a relevant field to say they're wrong, they declare that they're leaving the conversation. And hell, I'm being more civil than most posters in this thread have been, I'm downright nice compared to some of the arguments I've seen here. But this has RandomOTP declaring it's too far. Convenient.
Well that was a joyful thing to wake up to.
Shane: Yes, you were being an asshole. Don't insult other players. Don't accuse them of bad faith. If you are too exercised to manage that, step away from the keyboard.
Your expertise is a completely different topic from your presentation.
@RandomOTP isn't stepping away because your expertise trumps their argument, they're stepping away because you were being an asshole, you refused to stop when asked politely, and when called out for it you doubled down.
As to the specific issue of ninja culture and expectations related to jutsu sharing, I'll get back to you after I catch up with the other QMs and make sure we're all on the same page.
Until then, everyone please stop discussing the issue.
We exist in the same global society and communicate in the same language. We live in the same ecosystem -- sufficient that saying something being unethical is a matter of opinion doesn't strike me as cogent, any more than saying "It's a little warm out right now" for someone in California or Texas at noon would be a matter of opinion
Ethics is complicated. For one thing, the basis of it is always subjective, even if judgements based on that basis are then objective. A believer in Christian divine command theory ("whatever God commands is moral") will say that the genocide of the Amalekites was moral and that homosexuality is immoral. A believer in utilitarian consequentialism ("whatever promotes human flourishing is moral") will say that the genocide of the Amalekites was immoral and homosexuality is not a moral question in exactly the same way that heterosexuality is not a moral question. (i.e. it's neither moral nor immoral in and of itself, although the way it's practiced can be moral or immoral.)
Even given the same moral grounding, it's possible to weigh different elements of a question differently when those elements represent tradeoffs. For example, the pro-life position weights the fetus's right to life higher than the mother's right to control her body. The pro-choice faction weights the mother's right to control her body higher than the fetus's right to life (if it has one, which some would debate). I have a whole lot to say about the abortion issue but it's off topic here so I'll leave it with the hopefully non-judgemental presentation above and ask that it be left alone.
To bring it back around to the MfD topic at hand, the ethics here are murky. One view is that joining a clan means you are voluntarily giving up some of your rights in exchange for the advantages of being in the clan. (That's a normal thing in any society -- living in modern America means that I need to follow the laws even though those laws necessarily curtail my freedoms in certain ways that I might not agree with.) Even there, is the clan considered a communal entity, in which case everyone is expected to share all advantages that would preserve the lives of other members, or is it a collection of closely allied individuals, in which case you can choose whether or not to share but you can't expect others to share. Is there an expectation of a "signing bonus", where you will automatically get a bunch of cool stuff the moment you join? How much authority are you agreeing to give the clan over you -- it's okay for the Clan Head to order you to kill a foreigner for purposes of a mission, but can they order you to kill a Leaf citizen? If you're an I&S ninja then they can send you on a honeypot mission where the expectation is that you will be required to have sex with someone, but I&S ninja opted into that. If the clan is at existential risk unless a particular honeypot mission happens but there are no I&S ninja available, can the Clan Head order a regular ninja to do it? It could be argued that they made the choice to become a ninja and the consequence of that is that they they opted in to doing whatever missions they were assigned. It could also be argued that becoming a ninja isn't actually a free choice in this society and thus can't be considered opting in to arbitrary missions.
Like I said, ethics is complicated and there is room for disagreement.