Ah, the joys of trying to catch up on the thread after going to sleep.
Oh my god, this is... difficult. I'm just vomiting words and losing all succinctness.
Heh, yeah, it's really hard to phrase that concept succinctly.
I do understand the concerns about Ono's reaction to instant pop-up, but that's part of what I'm trying to defuse in the physical aspects of the introduction.
The surprise appearance will cause a moment of shock, which gives a brief moment to set the tone. Stepping back and sitting down on the floor is a non-confrontational gesture, with a psychologically submissive aspect. It should drain the tension that might lead to an immediate physical attack, although it's likely that it will be followed up by an emotional lashing out. Placing Mami out in front with a somewhat hesitant bearing, and the likelihood of her sitting to place her on an equal level with Ono (rather than continuing to stand, and being an overbearing presence), should defuse the high-end emotional backlash. After that point, Ono should be at a low simmer, which is really the best that can be hoped for in this situation.
Likewise, with Onmur's and SWB's thoughts, Mami being the voice in this conversation will likely be much better in showing we care, because Sabrina just doesn't do "subtle caring" very well at all. If you want someone to recognize the real concern you have, let Mami do the talking; Sabrina will just screw it up.
One issue in execution is that if we exit timestop, we aren't going to be able to have a conversation without her family member getting in the way.
This I'd disagree with. As long as voices aren't raised, I think we'll be OK. Even
if we draw attention, and the mom comes knocking, just timestop and step out the window, and continue the conversation outside (having dropped timestop; that would only be used for the instant exit).
Another thought, then: Would not exiting timestop actually help her deal with the break in? If we drop it, we're there, in her room, her inviolable place. If we don't, we're in this gray and creepy world that looks a lot like her room, but as soon as that ends, we dissapear along with the weird world, and she might simply and willingly discard the idea that we were in her room, if she wants.
My personal preference is to not do anything with Ono in timestop. We
know that timestop is deeply unsettling, and we're already in a delicate situation, emotionally. It just seems like a very bad combination.
She's not going to be calm in any case. And this would just be normal grief walls, not witchy walls. She'll be able to feel them, certainly, but the fact that we're suddenly in her room is going to be far more unnerving than the walls. And also less unnerving than if her mother hears the talking and comes to investigate.
It feels like you're really not grasping the objections here. Ono
is calm at the moment. If we pop up, she's going to be upset (to varying degrees, and defusable to varying degrees). If we pop up and slam grief walls around her (and restrain her, and start demanding stuff of her and so forth, in your vote), you're ratcheting up the aggressive presence beyond recoverability. You cannot defuse that, and you don't even make an attempt to counterbalance that action. It is, as noted, a terrible idea. That's the way you treat an enemy, not a friend.