The eagerness with which some posters are discussing the murder and/or torture of Dandeer is not only a bit sickening, it's rapidly becoming something that saps my enjoyment of this Quest. Can you all maybe take your torture fetishism to PMs or something?
EDIT: Please?
Agreed.
Frankly if the average saiyan is one bad day away from killing their spouse and attempting to kill their child there would be no saiyans.
The definition of 'killing' that you are using to say Dandeer has committed one murder and one attempted murder... Suffice to say, it has many features that make it different from the common connotation of the word 'killing.' Some of these features mean that it becomes improper to say "what Dandeer did to Lord Vegeta is murder, murder is evil, therefore what Dandeer did to Lord Vegeta is evil."
I believe this is an example of the
noncentral fallacy in action.
You can make a good case that the Sealing of Jaffur was
much worse than the Sealing of Lord Vegeta, even though we normally consider 'attempted murder' to be less bad than successful murder, or at least no more than equally bad.
Could you cite anyone proposing torturing her?
If you believe that Sealing is a form of torture or attempted murder, then quite a few people are proposing to torture Dandeer.
You guys are missing my point. Because the way you are treating Ki blocking, it makes fighting with Ki obsolete.
After all, if all you need to do is touch someone with ki block them to stop them from using ki....then you can basically beat everyone from Golden Freezer to Super Saiyan God goku since all they use is Ki as well.
If you acknowledge that is has limits then you acknowledge that it isn't going to fulfill all our fighter restraining needs.
If you are replying to me, I must point out that I am not part of the "you" who are apparently "treating ki blocking as though it makes fighting with ki obsolete." That is all.
-Edit (Bakkasama) As distasteful as it is, we must prioritize what is best for Jaffur and Jaron over what we think of Dandeer, otherwise we risk a second sundering with Jaron instead of Berra.
...
..
.
But my Murder Bonner!
Fine, can we at least sear her mind, and or, seal her knowledge of sorcery with another sorcerer though? It seems a bad idea to leave her at our back. Her particular brand of insanity is a pain to deal with.
Honestly, I'm not sure how much of her beliefs is
actual insanity, versus how much is just possibly-false conclusions she could be talked down from over time if the world weren't hammering on her so damn hard.
There's a significant difference between "wrong" and "insane." The key to that difference is that an insane person won't change their behavior or attitude if the situation changes. Because they can't, because the problem is
structural, part of the nature of their mind, not part of how their mind reacts to the external world.
For example, clinical depression is a mental disorder in which a person feels that their life is worthless, that they lack the strength to go on, that routine daily activities are impossibly draining, and so on. A person who is clinically depressed may report misery and frustration. They're sad all the time. They may report that things make them unhappy. But- and this is important- if they are actually depressed, just taking the things that make them unhappy, and 'solving' them, will not make them happy.
Fixing their problems does not make the depression go away.
Now, take a person whose life is very difficult for external reasons, but who is not clinically depressed. Say, their job is terrible, or they're in a toxic relationship, or their family is obnoxious to them, or they're in chronic physical pain. They may be very sad. They may express that their life seems worthless, that they can't go on, that routine daily activities are draining, and so forth. They may look a lot like a depressed person- and indeed, living like this for long enough can
make a person depressed. But there is a critical difference between someone who is sad because of a mental disorder (depression) and someone who is sad because of external conditions. For the person who is not clinically depressed, but is extremely sad all the time,
fixing their problems makes them happy. Or at least makes happiness a reasonable possibility.
...
How does this relate to Dandeer? Well, she is adamant that Sealing away her husband was the right thing to do. Why? Imagine if
every battered wife had such a great justification for believing that her husband's abusive side and his loving side were two physically different people. And had the power to cast a magic spell that forcibly transformed them into the loving side so that the abusive side could never come out and hurt her again.
Within a matter of days, there would be few, if any, abusive husbands remaining un-Sealed on the face of the Earth.
Sealing Lord Vegeta wasn't a matter of insanity.
Insisting she was right to Seal Lord Vegeta wasn't a matter of insanity. It was a straightforward reaction to external circumstances, that anyone in her situation would have considered and many would have gone through with.
Sealing Jaffur was a different question. The thing is, we know so little about what really happened between them. We don't know how Jaffur really reacted to his father being Sealed. We don't know what really happened to Dandeer, how she came to be so badly injured. We know what she
says happened, and if her story is true her motives for trying to Seal Jaffur along with his father are actually... rather sane. Wrong, maybe, but not insane.
If, as nearly all of us believe, Dandeer was lying to Berra about what Jaffur did... well, we know nothing about what happened, very little about what Dandeer actually did and why, and it's hard to say whether there has to be something fundamentally wrong with her in order to get her to do what she did.
...
Moving beyond that, Dandeer has shown callousness towards common Garenhulders, refusal to take the opinions of a child seriously, and inflexibility in the face of others pressuring her to apologize for Sealing her abusive husband. None of those are mental illnesses.
The closest thing to insanity we've seen from Dandeer is her obvious PTSD regarding super-saiyans... and while that may well play a big role in what's going on here, it's not
untreatable insanity. Not the kind that forces a person to conclude that someone is an un-manageable threat-machine rather than a human being.
Again, I am not saying Dandeer has done no wrong. She has done at least one VERY bad thing. She has expressed incredible callousness to terrible events. She should feel terrible about what she has said and done.
But that does not mean she is "insane" in the sense of "this person cannot be rationally convinced to stop doing terrible things and stop being a threat."
Well since we are talking about it....people hate Dandeer for her Actus reus, her guilty act.
But what about her Mens Rea, her intentions?
To those that would do something horrible to her, I posit the following:
Suppose that right here and right now, Dandeer was apprehended and brought before us for us to judge and punish her actions according to our whims. Politics don't matter, dad doesn't matter, Jaffur doesn't matter, only us, Dandeer and her sins.
....how would you judge it, and why? What would be a JUST action toward her? Going by what you would judge everyone else by, would she merit a punishment and if so, WHAT punishment?
She would be tried for the following acts, in my court:
1) The Sealing of Lord Vegeta.
2) The Sealing of Jaffur.
3) Any and all abuses committed during her regency, including (if applicable) the idea that she has usurped power unjustly.
As for (1), that was a pretty clearcut case of self-defense. The normal recourses of a battered wife (fighting back, going to the police, simply
leaving) do not apply to Dandeer. She had no way of escaping her role as Lady Vegeta, no way of defending herself against her husband, and no higher legal authority to whom she could appeal for protection.
I am not sure what would be appropriate for (3). My impression is that she hasn't been ruling
badly, she just doesn't have a lot of talent for ruling and her 'subjects' don't respect her. If her husband and son didn't happen to be the princes of a small country, her actions would not have resulted in her usurping political power. There is little evidence that she acted as she did
in order to obtain political power, so I do not judge her to have unusual criminal intent.
Furthermore, the collapse of the Vegetan power structure during this timeframe has arguably been beneficial, because it left Berra and Kakara to set the stage for the Exile response to the alien invasion. It would be somewhat hypocritical of us to blame her for an action we (as quest participants, or as Kakara) have profited from.
I do not think I would punish Dandeer for any of her crimes, except the Sealing of Jaffur.
To ascertain what is the right way to handle
that, I would want to talk to Jaffur and try to determine how much psychological harm he has suffered from being Sealed. I would want to know the truth of what happened between Dandeer and Jaffur around the time of the Sealing. Without knowing these things, I don't think I could settle on a proper punishment.
Obviously, Dandeer should be made to un-Seal Jaffur. Obviously, Jaffur should be raised by foster parents (NOT Yammar, Yammar raising saiyan princes is how we got into this mess). Beyond that? Not sure.