Honestly,
@Academia Nut , it is less salty choice then you scared us by.
[X] [King] Phygrif (-1 Legitimacy, Main Build Chariots, Heavens Hawk become a March)
[X] [Hat] Yes, become a Colony
[X] [Refugee] Take in as many as possible (-2 Stability, chance of further loss, +6-8 Econ, different benefits if Hatvalley a colony)
Okay,
problems with Phygrif: he is warmonger (which will be counterbalanced by entrenched oligarchs, so not a big deal), he is probably mysoginist as fuck (but we just had an OP Queen, so, while bad, it's not the end of the world).
Benefits: outsider, so probably less influenced by local politics, our Restoration policy means that -1 Legitimacy can be just shrugged off via Proclaim Glory, we get a 'free' March out of the deal.
As long as we can prevent him from going full hereditary and fucking over our foreign policy too badly (and we don't have much in a way of warmongering tradition, so his ways of fucking us over are limited), it is passable...oh shit.
@Academia Nut ,will we be able to continue building a current megaproject under the new king?