I am in a spectacular mood.
I am also completely exhausted.
The upshot is that there's, ah, no update coming tonight. Plus side! Here we circle back around to that spectacular mood, and I inject a bit of free word of Poptart into the ongoing debate.
Regardless of any measures Dandeer is taking against your return, one of your largest obstacles to planning a successful return home is likely to be Kakara herself. She is keeping it tamped down at the moment, and can at all due to that half-day venting session she earlier had, but Kakara is as close as this iteration of her character can physically become to being murderous with hatred for Dandeer. If you right now gave her back her body and hit her with a full charge of Spirit Saiyan, she'd turn around, go home, and proceed to not instantly knock out Dandeer, but to first humiliate her.
In short, your biggest hangup is going to be that if Kakara secures a decisive advantage over Dandeer, she's nearly certain to spend a significant part of it playing with her food.