No. He will be pissed that we went around his ally and put a strain on our working relationship with her but our reasoning to have Jaron trained is sound. He is our father and has our best interests in mind; our relationship is not so fragile as to be strained from this so while he might be irritated whenever we share a room with Dandeer, it will be because of the bickering.
Yeah. I think that if the chips were down at this point, he'd rather back Kakara than Dandeer, if there's a way for him to do that without fucking up the entire saiyan species. But we'd need to offer him an alternative.
Like, say, trying to persuade him that it's time to uncork Jaffur and that Jaffur is actually sane and a decent regent could be found for him (say, Vegeta's OTHER estranged sister, the one who didn't marry into the Senzus).
Fairly sure that ship has sailed, barring intense Berra intervention, multiple AP being spent on it and immense luck.
You know, I can't help but wonder what Dandeer and Berra a thinking long-term, as Kakara is going to eventually replace him as Lady.
Honestly, I think at this point Dandeer
isn't thinking long-term, because the Vegetans aren't going to tolerate being effectively headless forever. She can't keep running things as regent past the point where her son reaches majority. She hasn't got an exit strategy here.
Especially since the entire
point of how the Seal was supposed to work is that Jaron will have had a nicer childhood and have spent ten years growing up without his father's abuse and all. Dandeer herself may think that unsealing Jaffur would recreate his 'savagery,' but the rest of the Vegetans have no reason to believe that.
Berra
is arguably thinking long-term, but he seems to be planning to set himself up as King of the Saiyans by rendering the Vegetan line powerless for a generation or so, and I'm not sure that's a good strategy. Especially since the Vegetans have probably figured this out by now, and don't like it one bit.
People keep mentioning the Seers, but I don't think that is as useful as people say it is.
Otherwise the Senzu's would have been caught by now.
I don't think the Seers were ever hunting for the Senzus to begin with.
Think about it. Who was looking for the Senzus actively enough to engage the Seers on it? There doesn't seem to be any active search for them. The Gokun have sorcerors of their own, so if Berra was trying to find them he should be able to compensate for their magical concealment- Seers or no Seers. The Vegetans have Dandeer, and if Dandeer were that worried about the Senzus she could try to counter their magic herself.
As far as I can tell, after a few cursory attempts to find them, the Senzus have basically been allowed to 'hide,' as long as they don't stick their heads out where anyone can take a shot at them. Sure, if they revealed themselves, Berra might arrest the whole clan on general principles. It's not like that would be hard for him to do. But it's pretty clear that no major organization on Garenhuld has put forth a concentrated effort to find the Senzus, at least not since the early days.
Alternatively, the Seers may have just looked into the future when told to find the Senzus, and said "it is really, REALLY for the best if we don't tell you." By now I doubt the lords bother to argue when they say things like that.
I can understand where Dandeer's coming from in her actions and even in her xenophobic disregard for humans. I hold Kakara to higher standards for behaviour because, one, we get a lot more insight into her thought processes, and two, we have near-direct control over her actions.
Kakara was unrepentently hateful toward an abuse victim regarding her abuser and spiteful when questioned.
She has also been in direct telepathic contact at least once towards a second abuse victim who's been trapped in largely solitary, bodiless confinement for four years as a direct result of Dandeer's actions.
Dandeer is
both abused
and abuser in this scenario, and the cycle of abuse is inherently a very problematic thing.
We can reach a consensus that in an ideal world, abuse victims automatically receive kind and sympathetic treatment
regardless of whether they take it out on their own children. But it is not an act of supreme vileness to be harsh and cruel towards a child abuser
regardless of their own history of domestic abuse.
To me, she is far more loathsome than Dandeer. It may be claimed that Dandeer 'killed', or attempted murder, in Jaffur's case, two people, but from her perspective and that of the actual experts in the field of magic, that is not the case. It may be claimed that she has wanton disregard for human life in regard to intervening in the nuclear attacks. This may even be true, but they are not her people, and doing so put her people at risk.
Is this sufficient justification to smile and wave as millions of people die?
Kakara, on the other hand, was loathsome to Dandeer because she wanted to be. She didn't want to talk to Dandeer, didn't want to try to convince her of anything, and spit in her face in particular regarding her abuser.
e: She was so blinded by hatred that she didn't care that she was making a woman cry.
Kakara might, not without reason, respond "Yeah? Well who stopped to care if Jaffur might cry? If he hasn't been crying trapped alone in Jaron's mind for the last four years, it's only because he's the toughest boy I know."
In theory Jaron MIGHT be a special case because he's a product of sorcery, a new "self" engineered by Jaffur specifically to take on the sudden 'humanization' Dandeer was imposing on him with the Sealing. He might actually be straight-up human for magical purposes
in theory.
In practice, Dandeer would probably know, and other sorcerors would probably know, and Poptart definitely knows and has already spoken
ex cathedra.