It is not just about losing. It about the fact that this entire situation ultimately came down to random dice not player choice. And I am not just talking about this update.
The entire Ark Arc came as a result of random dice during battle of Salkakten, when we were unable to catch up to Tulllaris before he got on the Ark. There was a vote technically, but the option not to go was flat out crossed out. Sure, I doubt it would have won, but that way choice was not in the cards.
But it gets worse, because battle of Salkalten only happened because we pissed off Druchii. How did we piss them off? Albion arc. How did we get on Albion? Magnus literally rolled 100 on culling the Beastmen
the same turn we were sending support to Albion. We didn't chose to send him to Albion and set off this entire chain of events.
And now, we are at risk of losing our MC, his wife, several of our friends, and all of our well earned gear including the bloody Runefang, because a few dice rolls happened in an Arc we never chose to inituate, did not have an even theoretical choice to not engage with and apparently have to rely exclusively on having great rolls repeatedly, in a row to survive, because of how limited our options are to change the situation. This is the issue. We, the players, have made no choices, to be here nor do we have choices that matter in the face of dice. At least we voted to go to Karak Ungor.