Didn't someone comment that we should at least acknowledge the sleeping arrangements a while back? That seems like something to add to the vote.
EDIT: relevant part of SWB's analysis. Only point of it I disagree with of the rest of it was the second part of the suggestion for 4.
EDIT: relevant part of SWB's analysis. Only point of it I disagree with of the rest of it was the second part of the suggestion for 4.
3. Acknowledge the sleeping situation. Ok, I know this is slightly related to her crush and extremely related to her issues. But the problem right now is every time Mami wants a Sabrina to cuddle, she's thinking 'just for tonight' and apologizing. The temporary-ness of it is problematic, and I don't think we are ever going to refuse. So I think we should take steps to make this arrangement permanent. Like, just tell her we'd rather share the bed than the mattress on the floor, or simply take the initiative for once.
Yes, this can be taken add tacit acknowledgement or even reciprocation of the crush, but we don't have to acknowledge that whatsoever IC, and Mami isn't going to force the issue. That said, it won't be bad if we just keep the status quo, but I personally think we can take action to frame our sleeping situation more positively.
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