They are not kids, they can handle themselves.
I think not trusting adults to do their duty would hurt them, in a way, more than dying to give us time. They are sayans, and royal ones, driven by both duty and pride.
If they didn't want a kid bailing them out of a jam, they wouldn't have brought a kid along to the fight in the first place.
They planned to hit the dragon four-on-one. Then we got knocked out of the fight and they had to fight three-on-one. They were doing
surprisingly well, and managed to hurt the dragon, but they're running out of steam and may not be able to hang on while we charge a big attack.
How exactly is it distrusting or disrespecting them to
join the battle we were already fighting in, while simultaneously charging up the big attack?
Just telling them that we did not trust them to not die while we were puttering around with the Spirit Bomb, given that we are a kid, would be a hell of an insult I imagine: both via telling them we are of such a low opinion about their skills and because we presume that they are so pathetic as to care, even for a moment, more about death than about winning the battle of extinction.
Uh... the dragon is in fact mauling them pretty badly. Assuming that our help would buy them some more time to fight effectively isn't a matter of disrespecting them, it's a matter of the dragon being
big. Especially since it's not like we're compromising our "win the battle of extinction" plan by spinning off a multiform clone to help them out.
I mean hell, we discussed
literally this exact plan among ourselves in the pages prior to the dragon's arrival, several times. If Kakara didn't bring it up around the other royals, it's probably mostly because she didn't expect any of them to believe her when she said she could rediscover the Spirit Bomb in the first place.
I mean, Yammar would likely think real hard about punching us if we were to tell him such a thing. If he is a true Vegeta...
I don't think even Yammar carries the curse of Vegeta-esque obstinacy that far. He's less of a Vegeta and more of a Tywin Lannister, really. Can you imagine Tywin Lannister getting mad because one of his kids showed up to help him out with an army,
while simultaneously readying a plan to put down the enemy once and for all? As opposed to just telling him to 'hang on while I prepare my plan?'
And Vegeta was basically the ONLY person in DBZ who took 'saiyan pride' to such absurd levels. Even by saiyan full-blood standards he was a nut, and we are all of us hybrids.
Ironically, it probably wouldn't have been an issue if it had never been added to the stock vote. Kakara the character is smart enough to do something that obvious on her own initiative and it was only it being made an explicit vote option which turned voting for the stock option into an implicit condemnation of it.
It's a bit problematic because Poptart still presents us with plans of the form "Do A, B, C, or D," and the preferred answer is often "use Multiform to do A and B at the same time!"
It was also a problem with failure to use approval voting. A ton of people voted for the 'bare' option,
AND NO OTHERS, early in the thread, which created considerable momentum against any and all alternate plans. Even after the problem with this became clear, we had the issue that people still weren't willing to vote for multiple plans like "Imma vote 'bare' OR 'distraction ragemonkey' BUT NOT 'ragemonkey plus sorcerors' "
If the intent of approval voting had been preserved, this wouldn't have been an issue, because there would likely have been a clear consensus winner in the form of "ragemonkey but no sorcerors" that most of the thread could get behind, except for a minority who are
specifically afraid of Multiform screwing up the Spirit Bomb.