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Well we're just going to have to agree to disagree on that, since I'm justifiably proud of all the evidence I found.Does not, in fact, match any of the evidence we've since we met Anton.
Well we're just going to have to agree to disagree on that, since I'm justifiably proud of all the evidence I found.Does not, in fact, match any of the evidence we've since we met Anton.
Sure. But most people are not voting for the Marry Me Now option, either.
I only included it because as my runner up choice. I prefer letting the situation develop over time, to see what happens.
Well we're just going to have to agree to disagree on that, since I'm justifiably proud of all the evidence I found.
The idea that Anton left Roswita and spent a day talking and having fun with us because he secretly loves us has deeply unpleasant implications.
It implies that he wasn't leaving because he is a man of principle and refuses to work for someone who mistreats his friends. It implies that he spent a day talking with us not because we are friends and spending enjoyable time with a friend who expects to leave on a long journey is how good friends behave, but because he "loves us". It implies that he does not have the spine and decency, to be honest when he asked for us to marry him. It implies a lot of very negative things that I don't think are true, at all.
Men can be friends with Women.
Mathilda's motivation for marrying him is not particularly great either. She doesn't love him, explicitly. Instead, she is willing to settle for him because she fears that she will not marry otherwise.
As if one day when she lounges on a mountain of gold, having made the empire safer for everyone, brought the Dwarves back into prominence, revolutionised magic and ended the threat of Silvania for another generation she will look back and despair because she didn't marry a man and pop out children. As if these accomplishments and she with them are worthless because she didn't marry someone.
Mathilda's worth is not defined by having married an eligible bachelor. Fear of missing out does not mean she should settle.
I would argue that the first is passion, not love. Psychology is more than biochemistry.It can. But you are wrong: love is also a thing that is felt. Chemically, you are looking at a dopamine-based cycle that lasts 6-48 months, (puppylove, infatuation, whatever) followed by an oxytocin based relationship that is keyed off of spending enough happy time around each other that it clears a long-term maintenance bar.
So you are talking like the second bit is the only real love and I disagree: the first is still very real, and I think matches much closer with what Mathilde wants to experience.
I am confused where this secret love idea keeps coming from.The idea that Anton left Roswita and spent a day talking and having fun with us because he secretly loves us has deeply unpleasant implications.
I am confused where this secret love idea keeps coming from.
It definitely wasn't me advancing it in my post. I was very much referring to outright platonic love.
I am confused where this secret love idea keeps coming from.
It definitely wasn't me advancing it in my post. I was very much referring to outright platonic love.
But as far as Anton Quest is concerned, the Marry for Love option is right there. And half the questers are busy yelling at each other that they're going ruin their platonic friendship with asexual-aromantic-Mathilde forever and Blutdorf will fall into ruin and she'll run off to fight Skaven deep beneath the earth to avoid the awkwardness, and then the Mods have to step in...
I'm not sure how to feel about all of this; best approximation would be "extremely flattered". Physical attraction doesn't even factor into it. Mathilde been avoiding the romance novel side of things because Reality Does Not Work That Way, but the living breathing romance novel is standing right there. And neither can see it because they both think the other is too practical for that sort of thing.
Friends... can't ever turn into romantic partners? I'm not sure what you're trying to say here.You use the word platonic love once, but then shift immediately to assuming that that must also automatically mean that romantic love is going to be there, contrary the explicit text in the update.
If you're just talking about platonic love, then talking about storybook romances and marriage does not make sense.
Edit: If you're going to argue that all your evidence is about platonic love (fine by me), then you kinda have to admit that it's no longer useful evidence to argue that there's a storybook romance plot there, or that marriage is a good idea.
Is it not?Ya'll also said that you think the Marry for Love option is a viable path to MathXAnton.
Being friends is not a good reason for marriage, and certainly not to argue that it will be a storybook romance.Friends... can't ever turn into romantic partners? I'm not sure what you're trying to say here.
Being friends is not a good reason for marriage, and certainly not to argue that it will be a storybook romance.
No. Because she doesn't love him, and if he's going to marry for love then his partner should love him back. And that's even assuming he actually loves her right now, which I don't think he does.
In this specific case however, we have Mathilde's own statement that there's no romantic love between the two of them. Bad basis for a marriage.Depends on the kind of friendship, but it certainly cannot hurt at least.
Lustrian gold, not Nehekharan.South of Eight Peaks - Someone pointed out its where Nagash was chilling? Do not poke.
-How to stop a Waystone from exploding - This is legitimately important data given we're camped on there. I guess this is one of Teclis' packages?
-Nehekeharan Gold - Probably wise. Without metaknowledge...Mathilde still wouldn't have done it. She knows wight kings from back home are much the same and much less powerful. Nice trick tossing it to the Norscans though.
-Dark Lands - Probably the Dawi Zharr. Whats the other thing?
-Blighted Marsh - Whats so secret that even the secret package only tells you to get the fuck out of there?
-Rogue Magisters - Okay...yeah, hard to find a rogue magister, especially a Grey one who went to ground.
Being friends is a better reason than just being acquaintances. But I agree it's not good to rush into.Being friends is not a good reason for marriage, and certainly not to argue that it will be a storybook romance.
Having sparked this argument in the first place, I feel sudden sympathy for Boney having to write the results.For myself, I'm in the 'Marry For Love' camp.
If in the course of following this path, Matty and Anton both discover that in fact that does mean each other, then that's great. I'd be all for that.
But going in eyes open to a marriage of convenience on Mathildes part holds no attraction for me, just as Anton holds no physical or romantic attraction for Mathilde.
The Curse of Zandri is mentioned, which means it's Nehekharan.
It also says it's for if people go to Lustria.The Curse of Zandri is mentioned, which means it's Nehekharan.
It also mentions "Mummy gold". Two points for Nehekhara/Southlands, one for Lustria. I don't think it's important enough to bother Boney over, but still...
The Curse of Zandri is mentioned, which means it's Nehekharan.