The less we rely on Kyuubey, the better.
This is dumb. It's not relying on Kyubey, it's utilizing him. If he refuses to answer, that's fine. Then we ask Nadia. But asking Kyubey is both more reliable and faster.
Like, you don't need to rely on someone to get use out of him.
Besides the fact KB would likely take it as an invitation to traumatize Mami some more... whenever we actually interact with Kyuubey, there's a surge of... Kyuubey apologism in the thread, that really worries me.
I think you're making the mistake of thinking that Kyubey is sadistic or intentionally cruel. At worst, Kyubey is
uncaring.
Don't get me wrong, I have
many problems with the Incubators. But treating them as hostile is not only a mistake in terms of lost opportunities, it's also
stupid. We currently have
no means whatsoever of actually fighting them. We can't even yet offer an alternative to dealing with Witches, compared to contracting new MGs on a global scale. Maintaining a relatively cordial and business-like relationship with Kyubey is a
good thing, because, for the time being, we're stuck with him, and he could make our lives
extremely difficult if he wanted to.
If, on the other hand, we can show some potential for being useful for
Kyubey's goals (not counting his goal of getting Madoka to contract and Witch out), he's likely to be a lot more helpful going forward, and that is very useful, even if we plan on stabbing him in the back at some point down the line.
I'd rather ask Nadia. If she doesn't know, she doesn't know. If Haruka asks, we can ask Kyuubey on her behalf.
That makes no sense and is all kinds of backwards. Asking Kyubey (via telepathy) is faster and easier, and much more likely to give us a definitive answer. If he doesn't give us a definitive answer, then we can ask Nadia.
The only time Kyubey has shown himself to Mami since we revealed the truth to her is when we were meeting with Nadia as a group, and he was specifically there to definitively confirm Sabrina's abilities to Nadia.