When exactly did we vote to talk to every parent EXCEPT Dandeer? When exactly did
@PoptartProdigy tell us that we would to vote to talk to her specifically, but not the other parents?
Because he told us that he didn't bother with writing that part in the update due to how clear our success was.
If anyone had told me that we would have to vote specifically in order to do something anyone would expect to be included, I would have done so.
We did NOT fuck up, and I refuse to apologize to DANDEER of all people for something we had no control over.
Okay, deep calming breaths.
We the voters did not screw up; all we voted for was "train the Misfits," with the understanding that this would include Jaron. We voted for no specifics of exactly what she would do and how. Dandeer does not deserve an apology from the quest voters, nor would she understand the meaning of one if she received it.
Kakara, personally, who as a quest protagonist often gets referred to by the word "we" when the quest voters animating her brain speak of her, did in fact screw up. The screwup was very much in character; Kakara loathes Dandeer so much that it's entirely likely for her to think "I should talk to my friends' parents, wait ICK that means talking to Dandeer EW, I'll just ask Jaron if his mother's okay with it." She probably already does so sometimes, given that Jaron regularly attends social gatherings of the Misfits.
Thing is... the fact that we the quest voters didn't screw up doesn't somehow negate the fact that
in-story, Kakara screwed up. While it was imprecise of me to refer to Kakara using a "we" and this seems to have caused you considerable anger and frustration, I hope you understand the point I'm trying to make. In-story,
IF we concede Dandeer's parental prerogatives over Jaron*, Kakara did in fact make a mistake, of the same category as forgetting to get permission slips from children before taking them on a field trip some of the parents may want to shelter their children from (e.g. the Holocaust Museum, to pick an example from when I was a kid).
*And "if we concede Dandeer's parental prerogatives" is a big if, don't get me wrong! But it's still one we may decide to concede for our own reasons...
There is no good reason to ask her. There is no good reason to deny Jaron training. Jaron wants to protect people and we're not going to gate him from doing so because of his bitch of a mother.
Point of order: is "Jaron might die" a good reason? I mean, Dandeer can go play hopscotch in a minefield for all I care, but fighting an army of trained alien soldiers is dangerous, especially since the maximum power level he seems capable of for now isn't much stronger than that of the aliens' heavy hitters.
That will do jack and shit.
Actually it might do a good deal. Vegetans are collectively
outraged at the idea that even in his perma-Masqued form, "Scion Jaffur" is being deprived of access to ki powers, now that normal humans are allowed to study it for themselves. They already viewed the Sealing as a great waste of their Scion's potential, but by vehemently opposing ki training for Jaron, Dandeer is leading them to suspect that she intends that Jaffur
never be un-Sealed and
never take the throne in his own right. Anything that gives them confirmation of that will offend them greatly.
Basically, we have a lot of opportunity to put political pressure on Dandeer using the fact of just how unpopular "don't train Jaron" and "Jaron can't fight the aliens" is. There may not be a single saiyan alive who supports her in that decision, beyond at most the level of "Well I guess she has a right to do that if she wants? Crapbaskets, that's bad parenting though..
"
Indeed, the main reason NOT to apply such political pressure is the hope of finally, for once, actually convincing Dandeer of something instead of just treating her like a giant evil slab of Obstacle.
Note that this isn't about training. We're already doing that. The talk would be about Jaron wanting to fight in the alien invasion.
If she doesn't know about the training, we can handle that. We have dad's support on that and can easily talk our way out of that. Jaron will definitely be getting training. The issue here here is Jaron's wish to fight.
This. Even Dandeer's going to admit that if Jaron has enough ki,
personally, to blow up the planet, Jaron needs some training, if only to not blow up the planet.
Dandeer has a strong and perhaps misplaced desire to protect Jaron, though. I mean... hell, at this point every living Exile is a descendant of Chi-Chi; to some extent the inner "NO YOU GO BACK TO YOUR BOOKS!" reflex is the inheritance of every saiyan mother.
While we can probably agree Chi-Chi was
wrong to oppose Gohan's training given that the world might be destroyed if Gohan wasn't fit to fight for it,
taking Gohan with it... Well, her views are at least somewhat comprehensible. She was being a parody, but a sympathetic one in some respects.
And yes, there are HUGE differences between Chi-Chi and Dandeer and I know Dandeer did terrible things and mind-controlled Jaffur et cetera. Just... try to step back from that long enough to acknowledge that a person can be a mind-controlling (literal) witch
AND an overprotective mother at the same time.