You know, it occurs to me that the thread has a consistent bias that skews against Mathilde's actual expressed IC opinions.
The thread does not like Mathilde's female friends. Namely, Heidi and Wilhelma, who are the only real ones we have- note the way Mathilde references her "very good friend" and remember that Wilhelma was our first friend in Stirland, then compare and contrast the way the thread discusses her to the love than Anton gets. Or the way that we schemed to get Kragg and Belebro's affection but have largely ignored our imperial connections except for our godson and commonality of deity.
So Heidi is in a similar boat. Both of the women get intense, constant scrutiny of their motives, with 'they are up to something shady that we may need to stop' and the actual human connections and affection Mathilde has for them gets ignored in discussions.
I'm in favor of having a cute apprentice, so I'll be voting for that, but I think the thread might be benefitted by thinking a bit more in terms of personal connections and affection, and a bit less in terms of institutions and the long term interests of the empire. The plotter is going to make fools of us all over the 10-20 year timescales, sop we are best served by doing what is best of our immediate actions, putting allies and good people into the positions we can, and basically preserving a power base for future issues rather than dispersing it with the hopes that it will run better on autopilot than under our (or the grey order's) immediate control.
In other words, having our apprentice in charge of the EIC keeps it under control, and not in play. Having Eike as our apprentice keeps her visible and on-side, and not potentially being manipulated against us.
So please keep in mind Mathilde's actual feelings- IE, much warmer than the thread's- and remember that anything we don't have a direct hand in is something that can be manipulated against us and our goals.
And our enemies are aware of who we are now. We spiked Slaanesh with Vlag. We spiked Khorne with the bearricane. We spiked Tzeech (probably?) with the Mork/Gork split. All we need now is Nurgle and all four of the chaos gods will have direct contact with and reason to hate Mathilde. Also, we spiked the Horned Rat with K8P and Queekish. Even ignoring the Lhamians who saw us slip their leash...
We no longer have the luxury of anonymity.
I don't think I agree with this. For one, it's just on really shaky statistics. There aren't that many female friends, for one. Heidi is a conwoman with a big immoral streak. She's very interesting, but I don't trust her, and disliking her is fair enough I feel. The scrutiny she gets is because of her profession, not her gender. Also, a lot of it was specifically in context of her suitability as a romantic partner, where trust is kind of very important. (Mandred meanwhile just doesn't enter into it, Heidi is way more interesting. He'll be relevant when he stops being tiny)
Wilhelmine... I do actually like quite a bit, her problems just aren't super relevant (they don't touch us, and we can't help her much, unlike with Roswita where we could plop a vampire skull on her desk and make it go away). She's not being a great parent to Eike, but I suspect that's over-correcting because of how her children turned out before. Still, saying her child rearing is problematic is fair enough, I feel, and quite relevant. I don't think she gets particular scrutiny outside of that.
And if we're talking about female friends, then we shouldn't forget Roswita. She started on a bad foot, because she kinda rudely kicked us out of our job, and the initial behaviour wasn't promising (not asking for the runefang, spy reports, etc; selling the tax base). But that's pretty much gone away, and I don't think she gets questioned.
On the male side, you have Johann, who got
intense suspicion. As did Horstman, though that's more to do with his canon role. Anton doesn't get any because he's just incredibly straightforward and super sweet. That wouldn't be any different if it was Antonia. And Kasimir gets way less than Wilhelmine, and he got a lot of side-eying before he want through his character arc.
I honestly don't really see where you're coming from. The imperial friends don't get that many actions, true. There's also a ton of K8Ps people who don't get many. I don't see a bias between female and male friends either. Kragg is super cool as the best runesmith and grumpy old person who likes us despite himself. Belegar is our boss, and that makes him very important. If Roswita had become our boss, she'd have gotten a ton of social actions too.
I think what you're getting at is that unlike most of our imperial friends (Roswita, Anton, Kasimir) already went through their charcter arcs and mostly resolved their personal problems. Wilhelmine on the other hand was right in the middle of it, and it just got kicked up another notch with the magic revelation.