This is getting to the point where I can understand the Pre-Game's Admiral want for something like the Ares we were talking about, because 1V1 odds always play against us now-a-days...
And by "always" you mean "the last two times, we lost the coin toss?" You'd expect one-to-one odds to work out in our favor
only about half the time, right? That means it's hardly unheard of to (narrowly) lose two fights in a row.
So far, in our one-on-one cruiser actions, we've exchanged one badly damaged ConnieBee for one lightly damaged
Jaldun, one lightly damaged ConnieBee and one badly damaged
Constellation for a lightly damaged
Kalindrax and
Hasque. No good results, but no particularly disastrous ones either, and in both cases the enemy attempts to raid our supply lines failed, which is the job our escorts are supposed to be doing!
Our last offensive fleet operation was a decisive success that blew up something like 15% of the Sydraxian navy, and forced them to retreat from their main base in the region. Whereas we lost
no ships (albeit we took some serious crew casualties).
The reason we're taking a beating on our escort missions is in part because Ainsworth is committing the minimum
necessary to protect our civilian ships, so as to free up the maximum
possible for offensive operations intended to knock the enemy back and prevent them from pushing further forward. If she wanted she could double up on ships escorting convoys. Consequently, we'd probably never even
fight the battles you're upset that we're losing... but we'd also face a growing enemy presence from the Sydraxians, one that might well eventually build up to overrun us.
but guess who cut off most of our expansion at the knees?That's right, Stesk and his allies put in part of the treaty of Celos that means that we can't accept new members for FIVE YEARS! Guess who's still expanding? The Counter we could have had for that? the Gabriel Expanse? yeah, it's a shooting war we're getting Pyyric victories(AT BEST) from!
Aside from the part where this isn't Stesk's fault, all those not-quite-affiliated member worlds are still growing their own fleets; in the event of a full-sized war it is very likely that we will be able to call on them for assistance. It's not like the resources
not flowing into Starfleet's budget over the past few years have just been evaporating into thin air; they're still being used.