Hmm... with everything currently being discussed in mind... could Gendo plead insanity? And Yui?
Probably not. All these people were engaged in years, sometimes decades long plans. That usually prevents any form of insanity plea. Also, I think we can say they could differentiate between good and bad, they just didn't give a damn.
She makes some odd mistakes, too, like declaring Asuka and Ritsuko are 'literally the same character' because they both 'saw their mothers die'. Er.... no? Asuka got there after Kyoko was already dead, and Ritsuko was nowhere near at all when Naoko took her header off the command deck.
Mixing up continuities? In the manga, Ritsuko both watches Naoko's murder of Rei-I and her suicide. And then later on nearly strangles Rei-II herself...
Anyway, as for QMisato, she just doesn't like Shinji, I think, blaming him entirely for all the faults in A/S. Which of course I find really damn grating seeing that I blame Asuka for everything wrong with A/S
So in a way what she writes comes off as almost victim blaming to me (though no doubt she'd say the same about me). As for K/S, I think it isn't so much that she 'hyper-idealizes' it, but for the most part just arguing that it is
a thing. Or yes, maybe
the thing as far as Shinji is concerned, but most what I've read on that tumblr in regards to K/S were complaints about its erasure in public perception.
And really, personally, I can somewhat support the notion that A/S is toxic (the way it develops in the series, it certainly is another drain on Shinji I'd say) and that if it weren't for the whole 'Tabris' business, Kaworu would maybe be the best partner for Shinji. But this constant Shinji-bashing on QMIsato is really, really annoying.
And what's even more annoying is her ideological bent, which sounds like the worst aspects of second wave feminism. Feminist criticism of works is okay, of course, but I think in the course of that she's seeing themes in NGE that are just not there, and what's more, she adheres to really annoying, backwards gender essentialist form of difference feminism. Which I just can't stand. Talks about "the feminine" and "the masculine", and how the former is mistreated and the latter is evil... blergh. Gender essentialism is the worst.
So, overall... I don't like the blog much.