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Not his call. Seers pick Scions.He didn't think it through, If he doesn't want us to be a warrior Mato should be the Scion.
A Scion's duty is to protect the Exiles.
Not his call. Seers pick Scions.He didn't think it through, If he doesn't want us to be a warrior Mato should be the Scion.
A Scion's duty is to protect the Exiles.
Then sadly us not being a warrior also isn't his call.
That's changing goalposts though. You're acting like he shouldn't have picked us as scion- when he didn't- if he didn't want us to be a warrior.
Honestly, I think Berra's got about the best approach possible.This argument will go on for the entire thread, isn't it? Not that that is necessarily a bad thing since it does reflect the difficulty of it.
That said, we don't want to be monothematic so... CHANGING SUBJECT!
Any opinion on Berra's thoughts on Maya? Or how he thinks we shouldn't be a warrior if that will make us unhappy?
Are we going to say something about the opportunity we saw? I mean, I am inclined to not doing cause I don't want people to look too closely to Jaron but we could mebtion it to Maya I guess.
There are a lot of ways to do that without being, instinctively, a warrior. A good leader spends a lot more time organizing things than punching things, no matter how powerful they are.He didn't think it through, If he doesn't want us to be a warrior Mato should be the Scion.
A Scion's duty is to protect the Exiles.
I could live with that- but given that Pacifist is a foundational trait, I wouldn't expect it to get flipped off like a light switch that easily. The "violence is the answer" vote choice might blow away Pacifist entirely, but "I need to think" really, really shouldn't.Mind, having noted that Pacifism develops through the story, there's a reasonable interpretation that not choosing Pacifism now means losing it. And that choosing the "indecisive" vote is voting to replace it with another trait, possibly Wise?
My point still stands, even if it's not his choice and he doesn't want us to be a warrior it is already our fate.That's changing goalposts though. You're acting like he shouldn't have picked us as scion- when he didn't- if he didn't want us to be a warrior.
Didn't he basically spend several years snubbing his preteen daughter and she had to be the bigger person and mend the bridges? not to mention his ongoing neglect of Mato and possibly the other siblings.It's almost like he's actually a pretty decent person who loves his daughter!
I voted the 'I need to think' option because I'd like to see Kakara actually conclude, on deeper analysis, that 'pacifism is right, but I was going in unprepared for the difficulty' type of thing, rather than... mentally sweeping the problems under the rug or something.I could live with that- but given that Pacifist is a foundational trait, I wouldn't expect it to get flipped off like a light switch that easily. The "violence is the answer" vote choice might blow away Pacifist entirely, but "I need to think" really, really shouldn't.
He didn't think it through, If he doesn't want us to be a warrior Mato should be the Scion.
A Scion's duty is to protect the Exiles.
And why are you assuming we were picked as Scion to be a warrior?
Kakara is in an emotionally and mentally unstable state right now, however. Sudden shifts in traits, especially foundational ones, require extreme stresses. Guess what Kakara is going through right now?I could live with that- but given that Pacifist is a foundational trait, I wouldn't expect it to get flipped off like a light switch that easily. The "violence is the answer" vote choice might blow away Pacifist entirely, but "I need to think" really, really shouldn't.
"Being a warrior" is not actually part of the criteria to our knowledge.My point still stands, even if it's not his choice and he doesn't want us to be a warrior it is already our fate.
Say, what happens when someone besides a lord or scion of house goku or vegeta goes super saiyan?And why are you assuming we were picked as Scion to be a warrior?
The job of a scion and lord is to defend Exiles from any threat."Being a warrior" is not actually part of the criteria to our knowledge.
Depends on the reason and cause! <- The literal answer.Say, what happens when someone besides a lord or scion of house goku or vegeta goes super saiyan?
The job of a scion and lord is to defend Exiles from any threat.
Yeah. The obvious examples of people who are more about being a clan lord than they are about being a parent are, well... Lord Yanmar (who broke his son's mind by forcing him to participate in the torture and execution of House Talt), and Lord Vegeta (who was obsessed with his son's power level and otherwise a vicious, abusive ogre of a man).Honestly, I think Berra's got about the best approach possible.
Sounds like he made a mistake borne out of his parental instincts and viewpoints being stronger than his Lordly instincts and viewpoints. Which...is pretty understandable.
It's almost like he's actually a pretty decent person who loves his daughter!
There are a lot of things I can say about his treatment of Mato, some of which I've already said, but the fundamental point to make is that loving your child does not automatically make you a good parent. A parent can love their children dearly but be unable to have productive conversations with them. A parent can love their child dearly and fail to understand their needs. There are a lot of ways that a human being (or saiyan) can fail as a parent, and not all of them boil down to "He is an idiot" or "she doesn't love her child enough."Didn't he basically spend several years snubbing his preteen daughter and she had to be the bigger person and mend the bridges? not to mention his ongoing neglect of Mato and possibly the other siblings.
Yeah. Besides, if Seers pick Scions, then they picked two Scions for this generation. And the other was was Jaffur...And why are you assuming we were picked as Scion to be a warrior?
"Being a warrior" is not actually part of the criteria to our knowledge.
Two warriors are better than one, do you also think it'd be redundant if jaffur had a lot a social skill? and non-combat skills?Yeah. Besides, if Seers pick Scions, then they picked two Scions for this generation. And the other was was Jaffur...
I'm pretty sure that whatever Kakara was selected for it was not for pure martial prowess. That would be kind of redundant.
Did he even try though? you could argue that he's made mistakes because of being unskilled but the most damning thing has been his inaction, you could say he's always busy but then there's specific choices he made in spending his time with his family that widened the divide like training Mato in oozaru only because he was mad at karkaraAnd "spent several years snubbing his preteen daughter" strikes me as a grossly unfair characterization of the situation. A lot of children, again, have deteriorating relationships with their parents, it is not automatically a sign of defective character on the parent's fault. Good parenting skills tend to repair such relationships, but there is (again) a difference between "Berra loves his children" and "Berra is always a good father to his children).
Basically this. Berra didn't "snub" Kakara, he just didn't know how to deal with the pain and rift between them, and he was afraid of making it worse and hurting her worse. He was in a situation that's not really very typical for parents in general, it's understandable to have problems.Yeah. The obvious examples of people who are more about being a clan lord than they are about being a parent are, well... Lord Yanmar (who broke his son's mind by forcing him to participate in the torture and execution of House Talt), and Lord Vegeta (who was obsessed with his son's power level and otherwise a vicious, abusive ogre of a man).
There are a lot of things I can say about his treatment of Mato, some of which I've already said, but the fundamental point to make is that loving your child does not automatically make you a good parent. A parent can love their children dearly but be unable to have productive conversations with them. A parent can love their child dearly and fail to understand their needs. There are a lot of ways that a human being (or saiyan) can fail as a parent, and not all of them boil down to "He is an idiot" or "she doesn't love her child enough."
And "spent several years snubbing his preteen daughter" strikes me as a grossly unfair characterization of the situation. A lot of children, again, have deteriorating relationships with their parents, it is not automatically a sign of defective character on the parent's fault. Good parenting skills tend to repair such relationships, but there is (again) a difference between "Berra loves his children" and "Berra is always a good father to his children).
Yeah. Besides, if Seers pick Scions, then they picked two Scions for this generation. And the other was was Jaffur...
I'm pretty sure that whatever Kakara was selected for it was not for pure martial prowess. That would be kind of redundant.
Mind, having noted that Pacifism develops through the story, there's a reasonable interpretation that not choosing Pacifism now means losing it. And that choosing the "indecisive" vote is voting to replace it with another trait, possibly Wise?
Honestly, I'd prefer if @PoptartProdigy provided some clarification on the vote.
Did he even try though? you could argue that he's made mistakes because of being unskilled but the most damning thing has been his inaction, you could say he's always busy but then there's specific choices he made in spending his time with his family that widened the divide like training Mato in oozaru only because he was mad at karkara
Wasn't referring to that(specifically), but in general, such as whether this vote is something that Kakara arrives to right now or something she'll come to over the remainder of the year.I'm not going to confirm or deny whether or not a vote will lead to a trait every time. Bad habit to get into.
Which is why he stopped doing it the second he reconciled with Karkara? and where did i say it was out of revenge, petty or otherwise?Kakara knows for a fact that her father teaching Mato wasn't a simple matter of petty revenge. Berra made a mistake, yes, but it was not malicious.
Just re-read it, really he is bad at parenting, his first actions was to try and defend his position then telling karkara she must understand, then he went back to acting like everything was normal, then he started avoiding karkara.It wasn't several years that he was fighting his daughter. It was less than one and Kakara was the one that pulled away, even if how he handled it later left a lot to be desired.
It feels like you are wrapping me in straw so you can bash me, I do not think Berra is a bad person i think he is a heavily flawed parent and ruler.You know, it is starting to feel as if you are twisting what happens on purposein order to bash Berra.
talking strait here you say that, but your other posts read extremely bashy on this subject
I have been a bit too vehement but such is the nature of arguments. really stepping back and examining Berra his biggest problems seem to stem from having issues dealing with past mistakes and either overcompensating or avoiding them.talking strait here you say that, but your other posts read extremely bashy on this subject
just saying
I think that given what an incessant repetition of this one note you've been playing, you would be arguing that Jaffur developing high social skills was redundant and a detraction from the pure awesomeness of his combat abilities.Two warriors are better than one, do you also think it'd be redundant if jaffur had a lot a social skill? and non-combat skills?
Wasn't referring to that(specifically), but in general, such as whether this vote is something that Kakara arrives to right now or something she'll come to over the remainder of the year.
Which is why he stopped doing it the second he reconciled with Karkara? and where did i say it was out of revenge, petty or otherwise?
I apologise for any miscommunication on my part.You didn't explicitly, but your arguments are heated enough that it is difficult to believe the implication was accidental.
Dammit Berra, the problem wasn't you training Mato, it was that you lied to your daughter and deliberately avoided her, you've solved one problem but exacerbated another. Poor Mato.He stopped doing it when he reconciled with her because the underlying cause of the unfairness was addressed and brought out into the open where it could be killed. Confronted with his mistake, he elected to stop making that mistake.
Nope Jaffur needs good social skill. maybe not a specialisation if he winds up tying together the clans with karkara again but having huge blindspots is dangerous.I think that given what an incessant repetition of this one note you've been playing, you would be arguing that Jaffur developing high social skills was redundant and a detraction from the pure awesomeness of his combat abilities.
jaffur quest would be fucking boring i like pacifism.I'm truly sorry if you're upset that we're not playing Jaffur Quest, with the martial prodigy of a Scion and the obvious, insanely villainous father.
Thank you SO MUCH I was worrying about that.It's her immediate impression; this is what she decides right now.
Then act like it, and stop pouring mountains of salt onto Kakara Quest and its pacifism and constantly treating pacifism like it's a weakness of Kakara's character that we need to train out of her.
How about you actually read what i post more often, I have no problems with pacifism. the trait as it stands is flawed and both wastes time when serious combat is already in progress and, reduces Karkara's martial growth.Then act like it, and stop pouring mountains of salt onto Kakara Quest and its pacifism and constantly treating pacifism like it's a weakness of Kakara's character that we need to train out of her.