It's not really that we're alright with Asur nonsense. We obviously would prefer the Asur become competent at foreign policy and stop their shenanigans, just as we would prefer the Dwarves not rate their grudges higher than life and sanity itself.
I, however, personally am bewildered by the outright antipathy towards the Asur and the corresponding sympathy (!!!!) to their direct rivals, especially when we're BFFs with the Dwarves. Mathilde is far more a dwarf friend than an elf friend, definitely, but for us OOC, both the Asur and the Dawi are great forces of Good (although the Asur globally, the Dawi regionally), and both have their flaws. Hence, I see a double standard between how the elder races are portrayed here- if the strange and inhuman Dawi can be our good friends, why do we (again, the players, who have setting knowledge) disdain the faction who lay down their lives by the thousands to defend the world?
Edit: Or, even worse, why favourable mentions to the nihilistic, enslaving, genocidal, warp-dealing sadists directly contributing to ending it???
Edit: I don't mind us liking the elder races either. I'd love to be their friends, they're both awesome, and their also being flawed I don't hold against them (too much). The juxtaposition bewilders me, though.
Personally, I
like the Asur. They have their flaws, as do all factions in this universe, but they have their positives too, and they are in the end an Order faction. In fact, I would love to deal more with the Asur, see more Asur characters and develop a deeper relationships with them!
Unfortunately, they are currently in bed with a faction that has made what is perhaps one or two steps away from
existential threats towards the Empire of Man, if I'm understanding the blockade threat properly, out of pure greed. And the High Elves have no significant reason or desire to change this policy. We kind of have to consider them in a potentially hostile light, because it's very, very possible we will be fighting them in the near future. Which sucks! What I would love to have happen, is something like this:
Dials... Ring ring ring.... ring ring ring...
"Hi there Ulthuan, yeah Sigmar's Empire here. Yeah, Laurelorn says hi. So anyway, it turns out your ancient, hated rivals the Druchii are here trying to court us? Yeah, it's really weird to us too, and we really don't want to accept their aid, but we're kind of in a super desperate situation here because Marienburg, yeah the guys you backed back then, well they're threatening to starve half of our population. I know, crazy right? And, considering what happened last time we tried to fight them, we can't really afford
not to accept all the aid we can get. I don't suppose you would be up to offering a better deal? Yeah, pulling away support from Marienburg would be great, we wouldn't have to consider Druchii military aid with that... and the trade? Well mostly trade for trade is fine, but we've kind of been left high and dry in the magic department for a few lifetimes now, yeah, our lifetimes of course, which means they're offering a kind of unique resource there so... Oh wow! Wizard Dad's coming home!? He finally found that milk? Great! Yeah, forget about the Druchii, no prob no prob. Yeah, just unfriended them. Well, we'll prep the ports for your diplomats and traders and dust off Dads old room... Yeah. No prob. Yeah, it's been great talking to you, same time next week? Great! See you then!"
Click... Dials... Ring ring ring.... ring ring ring...
"Hey, Marienburg. Fuck you."
Click.
That's the dream obviously, not something for certain, and there's definite potential pitfalls of various types, but even if highly unlikely I don't see it being impossible, so I would like to explore such a possibility rather than dismiss it outright.
As for sympathy for the Druchii, I think 'sympathy' is a very strong word for what's been happening. More we've just been trying to view them as actual potential diplomatic actors that we might be able to interact with and utilise in ways that go beyond killing and stealing their shit.
Edit: 'Existential threat' is apparently much too far, but still, not fun. Could possibly change the argument to "We need to make up for this crippling of trade somehow, if the Druchii approach us with such opportunities we are not in a situation we can easily say no," or something to that effect.