TheLastOne
Person of impeccable tastes (for destruction)
Nothing Meizhen can do without outright violating Sect rules would actually keep him out for more than a month however.
I would not risk Meizhen doing so and harming her prospects on someone who had to date not managed to do more than annoy us, score us lots of money and gotten us to start taking precautions we probably should have started long before.
We've been repeatedly told that those protections aren't as 'real' as you're asserting here for the common-born student, and he isn't just a common born student, he's a common-born student who has no support or allies left to seriously go batting for him.
I'm going to disagree here. Both are about backup, and the "tell her if she goes overboard" or not doesn't actually influence that. I'd say it is about whether its gloating and torture once the fight is over... and that if you think "it's about the attitidue you go in the fight", which I disagree with, it still means that not telling Meizhen when she goes overboard means having Ling Qi going into the fight deciding to shut up and not tell Meizhen what she feels, which is arguably a worse fighting atitude than 'wary Meizhen can go too far'.
I do think there is a big possibility that Meizhen will be hurt by us refusing her way of doing things. It's necessary to do so if we don't want to have a Ling Qi who is afraid of speaking out her own belief when being around Meizhen, though.
Not overboard takes as much care of him as overboard. Even if you think overboard is crippling his spiritual cultivation, it actually makes him a much more potent weapon against us than anything else he could have done to us.
It has nothing to do with 'doing it once and for all', but instead is just a desire to think that it's easy to take care of enemies. If we can take care of him- with either choice- through time out it would almost certainly be the most potent way to ensure nothing bad happens, much more than any kind of crippling.
No, he needs his potential, his health, to remain as part of the sect. Cut off his future and he's going to be shipped off to serve his term in the army. This is what we're criticizing by the way. Meizhen specifically tells us that she didn't want to involve us because we're too soft on the issue.
When the outcome of our involvement is to extend the existence of a threat, making things worse for us and for the people allied with us, we show that her judgement was spot on.