Addressing all of you at the same time by saying this: First, all of you are underestimating our combat ability greatly. And, even if you aren't this should be a lesson to make sure that we're able to hold our own.
Second, we should absolutely stop fucking running to someone's skirt to defend us, regardless of losing or not. If we lose the dress, it's worth it to actually stand on our own two.
Last, Zequing likes us, but she does not think like us. She is not likely to help us and going up to her is just going to cause her to drop us by forcing her to see us as weak.
And, she is the type of spirit that disdains weakness, if you haven't noticed. And, that was 100% part of the lesson we learned last time as well. Do you not remember her being all, "If he dies, he dies." with us when we questioned her?
Do you not remember that being part of what shook Ling up, and why she was so against going back up there, because she felt Zequing didn't care if she killed us trying to make her stronger?
Also, we haven't been back in a week. We have no idea how Zequing herself would feel about us and our reaction. She could be dismissaful of us for treating her help this way after almost two weeks of stewing on your actions.
1) You are hilariously underestimating Sun Liling combat ability if you think that Ling Qi can beat both her and her spirit by her lonesome. That's not even mentioning Sun Liling combat focus and her being in the third realm for 12 weeks.
2) Why would Ling Qi give a fuck about hiding? Her resolve was about not letting go of her friends not rushing in to hopeless fights. As Zhou said, Ling should pick her fights intelligently. Ling already mentioned she doesn't care about honor, and the desire to stand up and get beaten for the moral high ground isn't in character for Ling Qi.
3) Zeqing absolutely cares about Ling Qi to an extant. Otherwise she wouldn't repeatedly spend her time with Ling Qi and throw her into the blizzard in her misguided attempt to help. Ling Qi was shook because Zeqing was being friendly and Ling didn't forsee Zeqing throwing her into the blizzard without warning because spirits have trouble into humans. And to your last point, Zeqing is free only once every other week, Ling has taken steps to apologize as soon as she was able.