It... wasn't exactly about that. I'm thinking of the things that generally lead to issues in relationships, imbalance in power and responsibility, differences in experience, the ability to actually understand and relate to each other... things like that. The only people who could really understand Mathilde's constant drive to make the world a better place and her commanding nature would be someone who has ruled over at least some form of territory and population. The only people who could understand her relationship with magic or combat experience is someone who has been on similar adventures, and has enough power of their own to at least feel like a peer, if not necessarily a close one. It's not about the social position, it's about what that position entails and how it would have shaped a person.
And I wasn't trying to suggest we start building Panoramia up just so we could romance her, I was trying to say the only way she would become a viable option is if she got built up, if we had a better rapport with her, stuff like that. Cause to effect, not effect to cause. I would vote for building the relationship with Panoramia anyways, but it would need to win enough to consider her a romance option. Basically this: