Oh, I don't think we have better than a snowball's chance in hell of beating her (I'm probably less confident of beating Ji Rong than most people in the thread), I'm just pushing back against that winning would be bad. It's all academic I guess.It's not a loss of face for being a sore loser. It's regaining face from an upstart. If a commoner beat a ducal scion in a 1v1 duel and the commoner had a cultivation disadvantage that would such a massive lost of face as to be near death. Almost as if some one had torn off Sun Shao's physically face. I certainly don't want to be the one to do that to the Butcher King. Some fights you can't afford to win. Winning the fight against Sun Liling is far more expensive then losing the fight. Besides I still don't know where this idea that we can win is coming from. Putting up a good fight is great but even thinking we can win?
The Sun would lose face from their heir losing to a commoner (though they could spin it as a commoner with the backing of the Cai clan and Elder Jiao, even if the latter is stretching the truth), but further reprisals are not only risking open conflict with Cai Shenhua, but also tossing further face down the drain.
The best way for her to regain face would be to prove it was a fluke by outperforming Ling Qi in the Inner Sect.