Yes. I agree, the tradition that led to this conundrum is bad. Or maybe its not, because the dwarfs would have sealed themselves to all die out because they knew they were about when Vlag and Dum fell. Who knows.
But thats not the same tradition as the one that keeps the Kings from acting out and leads to civil war.
Or the one where they judge people by their merit, so they are not as nasty to wizards as Empire folk is. Mathilde rather enjoys that, no?
I am not arguing that Thorgrim should keep silent, this problem needs resolution. But giving Belegar more reasons to do whatever is not it, because it tarnishes tradition that keeps Karaz Ankor mostly glued together despite the ocassional ribbing.
See the basic difference between our positions is that I trust Beleger to not to whatever, but instead act with wisdom and caution as he has always done. I do not blindly trust the traditions of the Karaz Ankor.