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Eh sexuality is both complicated and fluid. Ling Qi is pretty young so she isn't exactly set in stone.
For the absolute majority of people sexuality isnt fluid. People are born with a certain sexuality they cant change. You cant pray your sexuality away, you cant use electroshocks or torture and peer pressure doesnt work as well.
You can force a performance, like when homosexual nobility way forced to produce heirs no matter what, but you cant change a sexuality.
Sentiments like, "its just a phase" or "when you mature and grow as a person you will grow out of your heterosexuality" are stupid and patronizing at best and actively harmful at worst.
Please stop with statements like this. While at first it sounds permissive, inclusive and progressive it really, really isnt. It equates sexuality with a learned behaviour that can therefore be unlearned or changed. It is the exact same thinking the warden of a gay conversion camp has and should be equally dismissed as hateful and untrue when coming from a queer or lgbt person or ally.
Sorry when i come of as fairly strong in this matter but this is one of my major red flags and I needed to point it out. Im sure you didnt mean anything bad by this and are just a good person trying to be tolerant in a, sadly, horrible way.