I claim that we can obtain evidence by directly comparing Mathilde's visit with Roswita to Mathilde's visit with Cython. In both cases Mathilde went in expecting academic discussion and got it. Mathilde was far more interested in Cython than she was in Roswita both before and after the visits ended.
To be fair, a dragon that Mathilde's only ever met once in her life is inherently likely to provoke a lot more intellectual interest than an Elector Countess that Mathilde's met and socialized with on numerous occasions over a period of years. And there's a degree of comfort and intellectual equality between Roswita and Mathilde that I don't think Mathilde could ever reach with the dragon, due to the scope mismatch between them.
BoneyM was trying to avoid writing interest in order to avoid the thread taking it like Word of God and effectively soft-locking onto a character. The issue is that if we'd had any interest at all, during a couple's celebration while in a mining shaft, it would have been way too much interest, and none of the others would have been picked. Comparing the two doesn't work.
OK, that's a fair point...
...But when it turns into Mathilde and Johann just not really having any chemistry
throughout the entire story, it makes one wonder.
I mean, yes, it is kind of unfair to Roswita that her competition is a dragon. But... she is competing with a dragon, and it wouldn't be fair to Mathilde to make her choose against her own preference for reasons of affirmative action. If they were applying for college or interviewing for a job I think that affirmative action and equality-of-opportunity vs equality-of-outcome is a discussion we could have, but in the context of Mathilde looking for romance I think Roswita is just stuck competing with a dragon. :/
OK, but the flip side of that is that we're vetting candidates for
romance and not for being
intellectually stimulating. The latter is a component of the former for Mathilde, but it's not the only one.
Assuming for the sake of argument that all parties have compatible romantic preferences (Roswita might be only into boys, but then, the dragon might not be into anthropoids), Roswita still has some pretty significant advantages over the dragon:
1) A larger shared pool of experiences and background. Roswita is likely to
get the emotional and cultural aspects of Mathilde's life in ways the dragon will not. Almost everything that has ever mattered to Mathilde, aside from
ulgu, is something that Cython has never heard of before, may never truly understand, and will probably only ever know as "that thing Mathilde cares about."
2) Less of an extreme mismatch in, well,
scope, as I have discussed. Mathilde's entire life expectancy is a fractional percent of Cython's lifespan. Mathilde relates to her physical environment entirely differently. Roswita, again, will
get logistical and physical aspects of Mathilde's life in ways a dragon will not.
3) To put it tactfully, somewhat more compatible anatomy? Not that this is inherently an obstacle to love, sure fine, but it's a
factor in the same way that "ability to swap interesting theories of magic and divinity" is a factor.
And that's before I'm running into personality analysis, which would take me time I don't have to finish this.