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I think you'll find that 5e and 3.5/Pathfinder 1e can capture the "feel" of D&D and be quite robust. There are differences in complexity and attendant differences in depth and flexibility, but 5e also is less shy about handing out awesome powers earlier.
What will likely be best for a beginner is whatever the group he can find is playing.
As to the curse, that sounds very specific and not generally supported, simply because it's more a story arc than a character build. But you can and should discuss it and what you want from the play experience with it with your DM.
Unless I misunderstood and all you want is to be a cat girl who used to be a male human. In which case that mostly is an exercise in finding the race to represent being a cat girl and then just RPing the curse. Even lifting it would be more plot event than strict mechanics.
What will likely be best for a beginner is whatever the group he can find is playing.
As to the curse, that sounds very specific and not generally supported, simply because it's more a story arc than a character build. But you can and should discuss it and what you want from the play experience with it with your DM.
Unless I misunderstood and all you want is to be a cat girl who used to be a male human. In which case that mostly is an exercise in finding the race to represent being a cat girl and then just RPing the curse. Even lifting it would be more plot event than strict mechanics.