We either simplify it by making our friends support each other so we don't have to do as much, or we do it by letting some of them drift apart. I favored the first... but I think we've already burnt that bridge, and so it's time to accept that not every character stays part of our story.
I think that, overall, I'd prefer our story to take a dramatic turn where there's a big falling out rather than this slow decay of a friendship.
What your vote tried to do was what Ling Qi managed to do near the beginning: go to both Su and Zhou's classes and only use up one timeslot. Now there's an argument to be made that Li Suyin's bond can be maintained through training because we're the one doing her a favor, while Han Jian's cannot because he's doing us a favor so it's far less meaningful to him, but the argent vent would have been meaningful.
Forget the argent vent though, those of you frothing at the fingertips to reply about that: as far as I am concerned, the Argent Vent is Su, Li, Bai, and ours (and Huang's).
I think that if we recover our relationship with Han Jian, Ling Qi's new status will have to depend on her outrageous luck. That, like Gu Xiulan noticed, Ling Qi tends to be at the center of things, to find the opportunities others don't, and manage to do things in an unorthodox way that nonetheless achieves results.
What we need to do is remind him that a lot of our worth is tied into our different way of thinking and that this way of thinking
is beneficial to him.
Alternately, we go to him about boy troubles.
I imagine the topic will go something like:
Ling Qi: Han... um, Brother Han! I have something I'd like to discuss with you in private.
Fan Yu: (frowns)
Han Fang: (shrugs)
Gu Xiulan: (FROWNS MIGHTILY WITH A VEIN POPPING NEAR HER FOREHEAD) WHA-
Han Jian (sighs, and shushes Gu): Ah, I see. It's about... Sister Bai, isn't it? Anything you want to say you can say in front of them. We're all friends here.
Ling Qi: Okay. But it's not about Meizhen. It's about... (mumblemumblewhisper)
a boy-
Gu Xiulan: (CONTINUES FROWNING MIGHTILY though with more of a thoughtful, menacingly interrogative bent)
Han Jian (confused): And you want to talk to me because...?
Ling Qi: Well, um, I, uh, well, you know how Gan Guangli basically saved my life from Kang Zihao the other week, yeah? I was wondering if I should cook something for him-
Gu Xiulan: (HER EXPRESSION SHIFTS TO PURE GLEE. SHE SQUEALS SO LOUD THAT BIRDS FALL DEAD FROM THE TREES. Fan Yu is forced to clap his hands over his ears) OMG FINALLY!
Han Jian: Wait, what.
Ling Qi: I mean, I think I should, but I thought, what if that is considered like, something weird for nobles and-
Gu Xiulan: Stop right there, sister. I gotchu. We're going shopping. Jian, Fang, Yu, you're coming with.
Fan Yu (Fainted at this point)
Fang: (Nods)
Han Jian: Wait, what?
Gu Xiulan: To carry our bags, what else?
Han Jian: Xiulan, we've discussed this-
Gu Xiulan: And what we've discussed is stupid! You have the chance to witness a roadside weed blossom into an orchid today and you dare say no??? Preposterous! This is more important than
politics.
Ling Qi: (already being dragged away) This is why I wanted to talk about this in private.
Gu Xiulan: (making happy noises)
Han Jian: (prods Fan Yu's insensate body. sighs.) I think your father was just outmaneuvered by a teenage girl with a crush.
Gu Xiulan (already some distance away): HURRY UP YOU SLACKERS. THIS IS WHY YOUR CULTIVATION NEVER GETS ANYWHERE. YOU LACK CONVICTION! THE CONVICTION TO GET SHIT DONE ON TIME LET'S GO LET'S GO LET'S GO!
/the next month is spent putting out the fires from this shopping expedition as
everyone and Huang Da decides to ambush us