I agree, and when the topic came up before it did have the air of science curiosity.I'm sympathetic to people who aren't comfortable with the topic, but I would argue that as long as the discussion keeps information, rather than titillation, as the goal, the psychology and biology of what is essentially an alien species is reasonable to discuss. The topic of this thread is Divided Loyalties and the We is a species and character in that. That said, I will put a spoiler in my previous post on the subject..
but this time people were talking about spider bondages and cuddle Sex, just after someone (inappropriately) expressed their dislike of the topic and got punished for it.
so I think a charitable interpretation was that it was verging on thetitillation.
if only because the uncharitable interpretations is that it was taunting.