She did get into straight up fights when she extricated Van Hal and then early in the K8P Expedition (at the first gate) and then in the Vlag expedition when duelling the big Daemon. She also did the infiltration thing, the high Learning wizard support multiple times and also took overall command on multiple occasions.
Note that the fights when she extracted Van Hal and the K8P expedition were not in fact the feats that won her so much renown, she nearly got cold-clocked in that fight with the big Daemon, Mandred isn't that good (innately, he could get better, but he could also get better at it in the other colleges) at the infiltration thing or the high learning wizard support thing, and after she took command those multiple occasions she specifically took traits to avoid doing that more. The things you are talking about are cool, but are mostly ancillary to what actually got her her rank and renown. You said you wanted what was best for Mandred, and you keep pointing to things that would be more appreciated and get him more access to resources and favors in the other colleges as proof that that's the Grey college.
He's 10. What signs of a driven intrigue expert are you looking for exactly? Reacting very positively to the tales of a trickster god is the closest you'd get at his age.
I'm looking for signs that would make the Grey order the best option for him, because I was responding to the implicit statement that the Greys were best for him. And what signs I'm seeing- notably, that his Intrigue is nearly half his Martial and that he hasn't shown any particular drive in his royal education focused on this sort of stuff -do not point to that. Because you're right, reacting very positively to the tales of a trickster god, specifically, to
one specific interpretation of a trickster god, is the best sign he has, and it's not a very good one. Could he learn to be capable? Sure. Do I think that'd be the best path for him? No.
The court games are the inevitable part of being an elector count. And we do want Mandred to have the tools he needs to be a good elector count
I mean, he's going to be taught how to manage court intrigue. He's still a noble. And on top of that, he's a noble who'll get advisors, ones likely hand selected by a manipulator capable enough to get married to the emperor. Dude has nothing to worry about on that front.