I'm shipping us with Van Hal. Why?
Because, well, I like their interactions and it amuses me, it is clear that Ranald ships it and as a loyal worshipper of his we should do as he wills, I like having more power, and, uh, it's almost like you guys forgot that we are doing a bunch of shady stuff that he might get pissed about and we might want him to like us as much as someone typically likes there wife.
Like, for instance, if we marry him, I'm pretty sure we never have to embezzle funds again. We can just be like "hey honey, I need some cash money for reasons" and he'll give us the money. Also, if he ever finds out about us spying on him, he's vaguely more likely to not kill us or throw us out if he loves us.
Remember, our job here isn't just to protect Stirland, it's also to do a bunch of other stuff that Van Hal probably wouldn't approve of it he knew and him being in love with us would very much help keep us safe.