Considering the historical time periods the Empire draws on, it's really nothing special.[ ] Grief
You acted rashly after the death of Abelhelm, a death that Sigmar could have prevented, and acted out against a largely Sigmarite institution under your control. While true and understandable, it does hint towards the extent of your rather complicated feelings towards your former liege, and you might not want those hints available for cross-referencing if the Underwear Incident ever comes to light.
OK so since this looks to be pulling ahead let's look at what the worst case scenario is, as far as we know. The underwear incident comes up and the assumption is made that Mathide and Van Hall were lovers. In that situation of Mathilde being early 20s and him being more than a decade her senior and a lot more worldly the natural assumption would be that he is using her and not the other way around, that he is trying to guarantee her loyalty to him by let's say... unconventional means. Now obviously the slander on Abel's memory would not be pleasant for Mathilde IC, but in practical and advancement terms 'was unwise in maters of the heart as a fresh journeywoman' is not much of an indictment.
Odds are you can say that about at least half the Colleges, not the 'slept with an elector count' part but that is for lack of access to one. I think the worst we can have to look forward from this is a really awkward conversation with Regimand that ends with a furiously blushing Mathilde going 'Nothing happened alright!'
Considering the historical time periods the Empire draws on, it's really nothing special.
We actually know his age now, his birth year is in the Dramatis Personae- 2432 IC.In that situation of Mathilde being early 20s and him being more than a decade her senior
We actually know his age now, his birth year is in the Dramatis Personae- 2432 IC.
The Underwear Incident occurred in 2472, so he was 40 at the time, Mathilde was 22.
I don't think this worse case scenario is a very likely outcome and I don't worry too much about it, but I have to say that if it does happen I care less about Mathilde's reputation and more about Abel's. Abelhelm did not, in fact, use Mathilde in that manner, and it would be an insult to his memory to claim otherwise.[ ] Grief
You acted rashly after the death of Abelhelm, a death that Sigmar could have prevented, and acted out against a largely Sigmarite institution under your control. While true and understandable, it does hint towards the extent of your rather complicated feelings towards your former liege, and you might not want those hints available for cross-referencing if the Underwear Incident ever comes to light.
OK so since this looks to be pulling ahead let's look at what the worst case scenario is, as far as we know. The underwear incident comes up and the assumption is made that Mathide and Van Hall were lovers. In that situation of Mathilde being early 20s and him being more than a decade her senior and a lot more worldly the natural assumption would be that he is using her and not the other way around, that he is trying to guarantee her loyalty to him by let's say... unconventional means. Now obviously the slander on Abel's memory would not be pleasant for Mathilde IC, but in practical and advancement terms 'was unwise in maters of the heart as a fresh journeywoman' is not much of an indictment.
Odds are you can say that about at least half the Colleges, not the 'slept with an elector count' part but that is for lack of access to one. I think the worst we can have to look forward from this is a really awkward conversation with Regimand that ends with a furiously blushing Mathilde going 'Nothing happened alright!'
I don't think this worse case scenario is a very likely outcome and I don't worry too much about it, but I have to say that if it does happen I care less about Mathilde's reputation and more about Abel's. Abelhelm did not, in fact, use Mathilde in that manner, and it would be an insult to his memory to claim otherwise.
Sabotage or assassinate only if he was acting against the interests of the Empire as a whole. Greys are supposed to stay out of the political squabbling. And if he was doing something like that, others should have acted against him too, they're just less explicitly bound to it.Eh... it is somewhat notable when you consider where the loyalty of a Grey Wizard is supposed to be. Mathilde was not some petty noble at court, she had a job as a member of what is effectively the secret police. There is a universe where the College could have asked her to spy on him, to sabotage certain actions or even to assassinate him.
They would have had to have gotten in line, we were busy spying for the Lahmians.Eh... it is somewhat notable when you consider where the loyalty of a Grey Wizard is supposed to be. Mathilde was not some petty noble at court, she had a job as a member of what is effectively the secret police. There is a universe where the College could have asked her to spy on him, to sabotage certain actions or even to assassinate him.
Sabotage or assassinate only if he was acting against the interests of the Empire as a whole. Greys are supposed to stay out of the political squabbling. And if he was doing something like that, others should have acted against him too, they're just less explicitly bound to it.
The spy is true, though it's not like Greys are the only ones spying on nobles.
Obviously we wouldn't be claiming this, but the whole point of this conversation with Starke is to manage other people's opinions. 'Other's potential misconceptions' is exactly the kind of thing we should consider when picking our response.We would not be claiming his, we would be saying a very true thing about Mathilde's reaction to his death. To make her the custodian of others' potential misconceptions is rather unkind to her IMO.
If we choose grief, pretty much this, I just don't think it's a very likely outcome.I am curious though what would you consider the worst case scenario?
Obviously we wouldn't be claiming this, but the whole point of this conversation with Starke is to manage other people's opinions. 'Other's potential misconceptions' is exactly the kind of thing we should consider when picking our response.
If we choose grief, pretty much this, I just don't think it's a very likely outcome.
That's your prerogative, but I do care about potential effects on Abel's reputation, and Mathilde as I understand her character would care too.To manage the college's opinion of Mathilde, we are through our actions ad words responsible for how they see her. The part I think is unfair is to get her to manage their reactions to things that are only tangentially related to her like 'Abel's reputation if X event comes out'. We have no control over any part of that and the words here choosing grief are factually true. I would rather not carry the reputation of everyone Mathilde ever interacted with on our backs... in light of second order consequences.
That's your prerogative, but I do care about potential effects on Abel's reputation, and Mathilde as I understand her character would care too.
This whole conversation started because you laid out a certain possible outcome and discussed its implications. In that discussion, you considered only the effects of that scenario on Mathilde's reputation. I just felt the need to also add the effects on Abelhelm's reputation. It's fair to not care about that, or to think it's not our responsibility, but I don't think it's some complicated second order effect: if it is believed two people had a relationship, the immediate people implicated are those two people.I care about it too, I just do not think it is realistic to manage it, or any sort of reaction at twice removed.
This whole conversation started because you laid out a certain possible outcome and discussed its implications. In that discussion, you considered only the effects of that scenario on Mathilde's reputation. I just felt the need to also add the effects on Abelhelm's reputation. It's fair to not care about that, or to think it's not our responsibility, but I don't think is some complicated second order effect: if it is believed two people had a relationship, the immediate people implicated are those two people.