Ah yes. The mythical Elfcation. The one where we're never ready for it and will never go to because there's always that little bit more improvement we could do before we take it. That Elfcation
If we really want to do the Elfcation, I think we should agree on a point (or a set of conditions) where we'll be 'ready', and when we get there, go to Nagarythe as soon as we can.
For example, as soon as:
-We have the swording style finished
-We have at least one bound Apparition
-We have made enough progress in the Project to brief the Emperor about it
Or something like that.