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He is also trying to harass Bao Qingling into marrying him because he thinks it will benefit him, now that's a good reason to be mad at him.
Can you give a quote?
He is also trying to harass Bao Qingling into marrying him because he thinks it will benefit him, now that's a good reason to be mad at him.
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No her attention was drawn to a pair she was less familiar with, and the subtly growing space around them. A big reason it drew her attention was the simple fact that she could understand their conversation. Considering that Bao Qingling and Luo Zhong were both levels above her in cultivation, that was an oddity in itself.
Through the flowing notes of her song, she had felt a distortion growing around the tall, lanky girl that Meizhen had taken such an interest in and the the frowning scion of the Luo clan. When she had first passed her attention over them, she had heard only the baying of hounds. There was an angry vibration too, and as she had focused on the feeling, a feeling like a curtain being torn.
"....Are being childish Bao Qingling." Luo's voice was low and harsh, but he had barely finished his sentence before he glanced to the side, seemingly aware that his words could now be heard.
"I'm not sure why you think your opinion should matter to me," Bao Qingling replied dully. Her grip on her wine cup was white knuckled. "It is not my fault you are choosing to be naive."
"It is not naivety. I have tried to explain this," he replied irritably. "I had thought you had decided to be reasonable by making a showing, but as usual, you refuse to listen!" There was a sort of tugging at the qi around them, and his voice warbled a bit, distorted.
"I came to show my support for the Cai and the war effort, not to engage in your stupid games Luo Zhong. It was you who approached me," she replied flatly. "I have no interest in you. I have told Father this. Go away."
He frowned, eyeing her reproachfully. And gave the room a look as the sound of baying dogs began to reassert itself. "It is not as if I care for you either. But that is no reason why we…"
Unfortunately, the damage to his technique was repaired, and Ling Qi could hear no more. Their conversation only went on for a few more moments before Bao Qingling spun on her heel and marched away while he was in mid word, leaving the Luo scion looking intensely frustrated.
"Just that we should talk now and then," Ling Qi said lightly. "Care to vent a little about what's troubling you? Lady Cai might need to know if her vassals are going to be squabbling on the eve of war."
She huffed, turning back to watch the crowd. "It's not clan business," she replied shortly. "Not yet."
Ling Qi cocked an eyebrow. When several seconds passed with no response, she cleared her throat. "Now you're the one being vague."
"Feh," the girl spat. "Just echoes of conflict before our time. Luo Zhong wants to have patching things up under his belt and a line of Bao family credit. He started courting me the second I hit Inner Sect. As if I have time for that."
"I would have thought your parents would be deciding that kind of thing," Ling Qi said carefully.
She shrugged. "He seems to have convinced his parents. Mine is content to leave me be, I am a poor asset for the usual business, but I've shown enough talent to put that nonsense off. If I can angle an apprenticeship in the Duchess' court, that is worth more than a line with a bunch of herders."
"...Why not just go for a different Bao then. I'm sure you've got sisters or cousins," Ling Qi felt kind of gross talking about this topic. Still, she felt like calling a scion of another count clan that was more than Qingling's habitual bluntness. Was there conflict between the Bao and the Luo?
"Not unmarried. He's just too impatient to wait a decade or two for the younger ones to grow up," Bao Qingling replied flippantly. She pushed herself up from the railing. "I am going to go give Lady Cai my respects now. This place isn't good for my nerves."
Can't honestly remember which turn it was in, after hunting party (turn 6), before we left to our trip, it came up at a party at some point, could have been when she told us that the Bao would be trying to court us.
But see, why are we even considering to put a proven failure at Imperial diplomacy into a position where he's supposed to negotiate with Imperial clans?We can stick him on the Emerald Seas side to negotiate with the Imperial Clans
Luo Zhong is a mediocre prospect, having him owe us is of limited value, and the project is too valuable to risk on a mediocrity.
There's a reason why we are asking Wang Chao to provide introductions, instead of having him join the project.
If Luo Zhong wants a spot, i will probably vote to reject him unless he does a far more masterful job of selling himself than previous interactions have left me thinking him capable of.
But if Luo Zhong is here to ask us to talk to someone else from his clan as a favor, then i am quite amenable for it.
The sect is a school, we should not limit ourselves to recruiting just fellow students.
Remember, Meng sent their ambassador to the ducal court to talk to us and offer one of their people to join us when we were not even certain there was anyone to talk to, Luo can do better than a mediocre student now that we are starting to talk of actual negotiations.
But see, why are we even considering to put a proven failure at Imperial diplomacy into a position where he's supposed to negotiate with Imperial clans?
This whole thing is complete nonsense.
I honestly find the idea that we need to kneecap our diplomatic efforts out of fear that our allies might grow too powerful not only personally distasteful, but also dangerously short sighted.The fact that he's mediocre is honestly a selling point. The Luo are a powerful clan, and if their representative does too well, that will give them leverage to demand additional compensation or concessions from LA and CRX. On the other hand, if he's fine-but-not great, they don't really get any leverage from his successes. And if he owes us a favour, that can help to neuter whatever interference or political games the Luo try down the line. If we owe the Luo a favour, then they get an advantage on whatever silly buggers they try with LQ, and we've already seen from LZ that Luo politicking can be unpleasant for LQ. We honestly don't want the Count clan representatives to be super competent anyway, just good enough to do their jobs without screwing anything up, for exactly this reason.
Problem with Luo Zhong is less his actions (at the hunting party) but the pointlessness of it (also being an asshole and not going away once Bao Qingling made it clear she is not interested in marriage).Man, if people think Luo Zhong was being a jerk we are not gonna have a good time at court when stakes are a lot higher than if we make friends with teens at a party or not and people have the power to actively fuck us over in long lasting and permanent ways and will try to and we still have to make nice with them.
Can't honestly remember which turn it was in, after hunting party (turn 6), before we left to our trip, it came up at a party at some point, could have been when she told us that the Bao would be trying to court us.
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*points at the above post*
Yeah, that.
Maybe I'm being incosiderate or insensitive, but he seems to only approach her at gatherings where such talks are rather the point so I don't see what's wrong. He doesn't hound her home, he doesn't try to mess with her projects, etc. He's trying to convince her of something she doesn't want to - but that's not harrassment. Talking is how people communicate and deal with problems.
Maybe I'm being incosiderate or insensitive, but he seems to only approach her at gatherings where such talks are rather the point so I don't see what's wrong. He doesn't hound her home, he doesn't try to mess with her projects, etc. He's trying to convince her of something she doesn't want to - but that's not harrassment. Talking is how people communicate and deal with problems.
No means no.Maybe I'm being incosiderate or insensitive, but he seems to only approach her at gatherings where such talks are rather the point so I don't see what's wrong. He doesn't hound her home, he doesn't try to mess with her projects, etc. He's trying to convince her of something she doesn't want to - but that's not harrassment. Talking is how people communicate and deal with problems.
It wasn't pointless. All the Meng stuff happened when we got introduced to court which was months after this. At the time we had just returned from the Bai border killing the thieves, and Ling Qi's personal rep was murky as there still was very much a feeling amongst some we were a social climber that somehow got our hooks into Renxiang. The duels we had at that point had somewhat dispelled that but we were still in very much Mezhein 2.0 frosty aloof contempt. If we as a new retainer couldn't handle even that level of petty social jostling then it meant we weren't worth paying attention to since we'd get eaten alive at court.Problem with Luo Zheng is less his actions (at the hunting party) but the pointlessness of it (also being an asshole and not going away once Bao Qingling made it clear she is not interested in marriage).
We have already decided to not make friends with a bloody prime minister in favour of trying to make not enemies with Meng, politics is fine.
So let's entertain the idea that he felt the need to test us to see if we were a social climber.It wasn't pointless. All the Meng stuff happened when we got introduced to court which was months after this. At the time we had just returned from the Bai border killing the thieves, and Ling Qi's personal rep was murky as there still was very much a feeling amongst some we were a social climber that somehow got our hooks into Renxiang. The duels we had at that point had somewhat dispelled that but we were still in very much Mezhein 2.0 frosty aloof contempt. If we as a new retainer couldn't handle even that level of petty social jostling then it meant we weren't worth paying attention to since we'd get eaten alive at court.
Bare in mind this isn't based on any substantial evidence and just something that has been creeping in after thinking about it a bit.
If Ling Qi was going to hold a grudge over that it's useful to know because if Ling Qi is so thin skinned to shun somebody over such a petty thing she is gonna suck at her jobSo he found our measure by making us actively dislike him.
The action was poorly constructed and placed him in a worse position than he previously had.
And now he is forced to seek us out by going to another count clan placing him in even worse position.
The idea of getting a better idea of us is perfectly reasonable one, the mehod he chose was not only pointless, but actively harmful to him.
Bare in mind this isn't based on any substantial evidence and just something that has been creeping in after thinking about it a bit.
I suspect that Luo Zhong aint interested in ladies and having cottoned on to the fact Bao Qingling has little interest in men found somebody whom he can fulfill his ambitions while also serving as cover to appease societal expectations. It's why he's so invested on the fact it has to be her and not waiting for a younger Bao to grow up and why he's so exasperated since from his point of view it works out quite well since they could be each other's beards and anybody who has spoken to Qingling for five seconds can see how much of a cactus she is and what that will mean for her marriage prospects so it's not like she'll have a ton of options
Now it's more likely he's just an impatient ambitious teen who is bungling it and can't just let it go but it's a notion that I think is possible.
Why does little to change the what.Bare in mind this isn't based on any substantial evidence and just something that has been creeping in after thinking about it a bit.
I suspect that Luo Zhong aint interested in ladies and having cottoned on to the fact Bao Qingling has little interest in men found somebody whom he can fulfill his ambitions while also serving as cover to appease societal expectations. It's why he's so invested on the fact it has to be her and not waiting for a younger Bao to grow up and why he's so exasperated since from his point of view it works out quite well since they could be each other's beards and anybody who has spoken to Qingling for five seconds can see how much of a cactus she is and what that will mean for her marriage prospects so it's not like she'll have a ton of options
Now it's more likely he's just an impatient ambitious teen who is bungling it and can't just let it go but it's a notion that I think is possible.
And if Ling Qi is the kind of person to hold a grudge, he ends up pissing a direct vassal of the Cai, a head of a (minor) clan, and a person who has the ear of the ducal heir.If Ling Qi was going to hold a grudge over that it's useful to know because if Ling Qi is so thin skinned to shun somebody over such a petty thing she is gonna suck at her job
Our avoidance of Zhong stems more from how he's treating Qingling, our best friends girlfriend, than having just an ok time at a party. It's not like he air'd out our mom and all her friends are whores at a public gathering.
Because moving the brood requires time to prepare them for moving and the destination to receive them. It's been days between Renxiang's report and the "now" of the current update, and there's no way the destination will be ready for them, whatever that is.So how sure are we that the spiders are still there and not migrating out of that forest and into ES territory?
But we are not in a vacuum, and there is zero spherical cows in sight.
And if the current ducal heir is the kind of person who includes toxic social climbers in her inner circle, that's the kind of thing you want plenty of advance warning about so you can neuter her influence before she has the chance to gain power.And if Ling Qi is the kind of person to hold a grudge, he ends up pissing a direct vassal of the Cai, a head of a (minor) clan, and a person who has the ear of the ducal heir.
Which makes him bad at his job (of not fucking up).
I seriously doubt he would have done the same if we had been a count scion, what he did was done not out of reasoned risk assessment, but out of arrogance.
The excessive politeness of the empire exists to avoid the kind of friction Luo Zhong intentionally introduced into the relationship between him and Ling Qi.
And there are ways to get to know people that do not include public hazing.