Threads Of Destiny(Eastern Fantasy, Sequel to Forge of Destiny)

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The reason i went with the non posturing with preparation to counter any ambushes is not because of what spiders might do, but what we do.
If the spiders attack us, then that's on them, but we have given them the ability to choose their actions.
And, what happens after the fight? Do we try to subjugate them? Kill them? Convince them to ally with us? What?

I just think that giving them a change, no matter how unlikely they are to take it, for peaceful discussion, and then proving ourselves a better ambush predator if they do decide to ambush us makes for a better story, and has some potential for better (read: more interesting) long term relationship (if one is to be had, which i doubt).

After the fight, they'll be dead. This isn't a spar in the sect or the promotion tournament, this is a battle between two unknown parties in the wilderness after we've come into the spiders' home. This will be a fight to the death and no one on either side will be pulling their punches. If we want to ally with the spiders, option 2 is the one that attempts to preempt their ambush by establishing our position. Peaceful cooperation will absolutely not be an option after slaughtering several of them. Best we could hope for with 3 would be that they flee after taking some casualties.
 
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Yeah; there are two options that try to stop a fight from happening and try to open negotiations, and one that accepts that these spiders as implacable foes.
[] Refuse to enter, demand that they speak with you out here. You will not be trapped. If they refuse, have Zhengui seal the tunnel before you leave.
[] Enter and engage, but be prepared. Use the trappings of Cai authority and your own power to intimidate them into backing down. If they attack anyway, this is a grouping you can handle.
[] Pretend that you have not noticed their duplicity and play polite for as long as possible to draw out information. Subtly set yourself up to counterattack their ambush.
I am fine with the argument "they are clearly dealing in bad faith and we should just kick their asses and take their stuff." That is a reasonable argument to make. But options 1 and 2 are the ones that give them a chance and try to have a peaceful discussion, explicitly in the text! Option 3 is trying to draw out as much info as possible before the fight which it considers inevitable.

If you want the spiders to think of us as formidable foes not worth the price of fighting and who should be negotiated with instead, the option that explicitly has that as its goal is option 2, not 3.
 
If you'd actually stuck to the argument that you don't think a fight is avoidable, we'd have avoided a lot of acrimony.


I mean, if you want the counter-ambush to play a part, then yes duh option 3 is the way to go.

But if you're invested in "giving them a chance, no matter how unlikely they are to take it, for a peaceful discussion" then option 2 is literally the one that does that most overtly. It's Ling Qi saying she knows their intentions, that it wouldn't go well for them, and that she'd like to talk peacefully anyway.

In general, I don't feel that attacking the underlying logic of an argument actually helps.

But yeah, it's why I consider the idea of "Option two is the diplomatic option!" to be ridiculous, because I don't feel we're avoiding a fight regardless, and I don't feel Option 2 will cow them into submission, because it relies on them knowing enough to fear the name and reputation of the Cai despite being out of contact with humans for probably close to two hundred years now.

So I voted for Option 3, which tries to get them talking and see what falls out before the inevitable fight happens. Rather than assuming they'll be cowed by a name most of them potentially weren't even alive to recognize.

Like I said, it's literally offensive that people are looking at "Look for a chance to reverse an ambush while pretending you didn't see the one they were setting for you" as "You are actively going to backstab them and thus this is the least diplomatic option despite being the only one that actually tries to communicate anything other than threats and intimidation"
 
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In general, I don't feel that attacking the underlying logic of an argument actually helps.

But yeah, it's why I consider the idea of "Option two is the diplomatic option!" to be ridiculous, because I don't feel we're avoiding a fight regardless, and I don't feel Option 2 will cow them into submission, because it relies on them knowing enough to fear the name and reputation of the Cai despite being out of contact with humans for probably close to two hundred years now.

So I voted for Option 3, which tries to get them talking and see what falls out before the inevitable fight happens. Rather than assuming they'll be cowed by a name most of them potentially weren't even alive to recognize.
I really don't know how to parse that first sentence. Attacking the underlying logic of an argument is actually awesome. But you've been really aggressive in this discussion, so if you weren't attacking arguments, what were you attacking? People? if that was your intention, then a lot of your approach tracks a lot better. But that's... bad. It's a bad thing to do. Please don't do that.

In any case, this selective approach to facts is really starting to grate. The vote goes:
[] Enter and engage, but be prepared. Use the trappings of Cai authority and your own power to intimidate them into backing down. If they attack anyway, this is a grouping you can handle.
The trappings of Cai authority and your own power. This includes the power to spot their ambush before it begins, which is really intimidating to an ambush predator. In option 2 we're likely to spit out Hanyi and Zhengui to show our full numbers, which we wouldn't do in option 3 because it calls on us to pretend we're unaware of the ambush. A vigilant, more numerous, potential threat/meal that openly calls out your maneuvers is unnerving, it's intimidating. But it's not particularly aggressive, especially when our only demand is to talk(and for them to stop plotting to eat us). The reference to the Cai is only to further bolster our show of confidence, it's not an explicit promise of retribution or anything.

The spiders are currently planning to kill and eat us. Simply conversing with them isn't likely to change their mind, because what they want isn't conversation, it's to kill and eat us. If we want to convince them to stop trying to kill and eat us, we need to shake the basis of their decision to do so. The best way to do that is to make it seem like we're too risky to fight for the value of a meal.

Claiming that an option isn't diplomacy because you think it will fail, rather than it doesn't engage in diplomacy, is literal nonsense. Succeed or fail, diplomacy is diplomacy. 2 is literally the diplomatic choice, between it and 3. Denying that is incoherent, and it's "attacking the underlying logic" of the vote option, which doesn't actually help the discourse.
 
I mean, if you want the counter-ambush to play a part, then yes duh option 3 is the way to go.

But if you're invested in "giving them a chance, no matter how unlikely they are to take it, for a peaceful discussion" then option 2 is literally the one that does that most overtly. It's Ling Qi saying she knows their intentions, that it wouldn't go well for them, and that she'd like to talk peacefully anyway.
Number two is not giving them a change for peaceful interaction, of their own volition.
Actions under duress are inherently less free than ones not.

After the fight, they'll be dead. This isn't a spar in the sect or the promotion tournament, this is a battle between two unknown parties in the wilderness after we've come into the spiders' home. This will be a fight to the death and no one on either side will be pulling their punches. If we want to ally with the spiders, option 2 is the one that attempts to preempt their ambush by establishing our position. Peaceful cooperation will absolutely not be an option after slaughtering several of them. Best we could hope for with 3 would be that they flee after taking some casualties.
Will they? Not every fight needs to be to death, we are capable of taking prisoners and accepting surrender.
It is quite possible that some of the spiders will die, maybe even all, but there is also possible that some will live.
And if the spiders are dead, well, that was the choice they made.
 
Will they? Not every fight needs to be to death, we are capable of taking prisoners and accepting surrender.

We are going to be fighting 2 vs 6-8 at around our cultivation level, we aren't going to have the capacity to pull our punches if we don't want to be killed.

It is quite possible that some of the spiders will die, maybe even all, but there is also possible that some will live.
And if the spiders are dead, well, that was the choice they made.

And none of them will want to help us after butchering their family/friends, and that's a huge problem because the spiders are not our ultimate goal here, deactivating the maze formation is. Cai Renxiang entrusted us with a task, and getting into a fight with these spiders, regardless of who is to blame, doesn't serve that.
 
I don't see how you came to this conclusion based on the stuff in the update proper.
Ling Qi very clearly does not think they are setting up an ambush as a contingency. She wouldn't be annoyed if she thought it was just a defensive precaution. her take would be somewhere in the realm of "Yeah, that's fair." Ling Qi genuinely believes the spiders' intention is to betray the spirit of peaceful negotiation and launch their ambush against her and hers.

In the absence of specific spider dialogue for us to comb through, it's only reasonable to defer to Ling Qi's interpretation of their intent. Keep in mind that she's observing specific ambush preparations communicated between individuals. There's no reason to assume her take on their intentions is off-base.
 
Me? I care. That's why i'm voting the way i'm voting, and why i brought it up.
I would have thought it obvious.
And none of them will want to help us after butchering their family/friends, and that's a huge problem because the spiders are not our ultimate goal here, deactivating the maze formation is. Cai Renxiang entrusted us with a task, and getting into a fight with these spiders, regardless of who is to blame, doesn't serve that.
They're spiders, will they care? Honest question here, i have no idea about spider psychology, spirit or otherwise.
They started a fight, they lost, shit happens.
 
Keep in mind that she's observing specific ambush preparations communicated between individuals. There's no reason to assume her take on their intentions is off-base.
" Zhengui, I want you to burn everything and bring the passage down behind us "

...How exactly do we know Ling Qi got more from the spiders than the equivalent of this? Given " She narrowed her eyes a touch as she realized the meaning of their movements and the vibrations they were sending through their webs " it seems entirely likely to me that she both took a bit of time to actually start understanding the spiders, AND, she only got to the point of listening to the spiders at all a good bit after they opened the webs in the first place. Frankly, unless Ling Qi moved to actually enter the opened webs immediately(which is very much NOT in the text, AFAICT we are, in fact, still OUTSIDE the web), from the Spider's Perspective here's a sequence of events right now,
Red Spider Shows up, scary outsider says she wants to talk to leader
Leaders immediately open web to talk to scary outsider
Pause
Leaders start frantically planning ambush because any outsider who both wants to talk and waits so long after an invite is buffstacking to murder them all.

Frankly, that their planning is "Frantic" suggests to me that this a DEFENSIVE move, if they did this regularly they wouldn't be frantic about it.
 
They're spiders, will they care? Honest question here, i have no idea about spider psychology, spirit or otherwise.
They started a fight, they lost, shit happens.

Cai Renxiang will care a lot that we couldn't handle a relatively simple task and got into a fight with spiders for no reason. That's what you seem to be missing: we aren't an independent agent any more. We have a job, do you not care about getting it done? The Cai have not shown themselves to be all that tolerant of incompetence. The reality of the situation is that it does not matter who is at fault here, we still have to deal with it and achieve our ultimate objective for the team. If this entire mission goes pear shaped because we couldn't deal with the maze formation, we are going to be prostrated in front of Duchess Cai having to explain that we thought the spiders getting their just desserts was more important than her will.

Ling Qi: "Hi Lady Cai, we found a maze formation and tried to turn it off, but we couldn't figure it out and the spiders living there wouldn't help us."

Lady Cai: "Why did they refuse to help?"

Ling Qi: "Idk I slaughtered them all and didn't bother finding out lmao."

Lady Cai: "You're fired."
 
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Number two is not giving them a change for peaceful interaction, of their own volition.
Actions under duress are inherently less free than ones not.


Will they? Not every fight needs to be to death, we are capable of taking prisoners and accepting surrender.
It is quite possible that some of the spiders will die, maybe even all, but there is also possible that some will live.
And if the spiders are dead, well, that was the choice they made.
I think what it comes down to is that some people here would prefer not to let the spiders make their own choices and face those consequences rather than use force and scare tactics, even if forcing them into submission would lead to no one dying or even getting hurt.
Other people think that force and intimidation are measures worth taking if it has a chance to prevent violence.

Of course there are other people who don't care about the violence factor, others who just want to loot the place for the shinies and what not. But I'm referring to the two sides butting heads here.

Also whats this about taking them prisoner? What are we going to do with them, bring em with us on our diplomatic mission and then drag them back to the Empire afterwards? And in the mean time, when the White Sky ask us what we're doing with these spirits, we'll just be like "what? oh those, don't mind them! Anyway, about our negotiation..."
 
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" Zhengui, I want you to burn everything and bring the passage down behind us "

...How exactly do we know Ling Qi got more from the spiders than the equivalent of this? Given " She narrowed her eyes a touch as she realized the meaning of their movements and the vibrations they were sending through their webs " it seems entirely likely to me that she both took a bit of time to actually start understanding the spiders, AND, she only got to the point of listening to the spiders at all a good bit after they opened the webs in the first place. Frankly, unless Ling Qi moved to actually enter the opened webs immediately(which is very much NOT in the text, AFAICT we are, in fact, still OUTSIDE the web), from the Spider's Perspective here's a sequence of events right now,
Red Spider Shows up, scary outsider says she wants to talk to leader
Leaders immediately open web to talk to scary outsider
Pause
Leaders start frantically planning ambush because any outsider who both wants to talk and waits so long after an invite is buffstacking to murder them all.

Frankly, that their planning is "Frantic" suggests to me that this a DEFENSIVE move, if they did this regularly they wouldn't be frantic about it.
I believe Yrsillar explicitly clarified in a later post that "frantic" is meant to mean "in haste" not "fearfully." Correct me if I'm wrong though.
 
So first, people aren't saying "Option two is the only peaceable approach". They're saying basically two things. "Option two is the only one where Ling Qi tries to make peace" and "Option two is the most likely to result in a peaceable resolution". These are both very very easily defensible takes.
This is objectively incorrect.
Spiders setting a trap should just be assumed to be intending to use that trap to kill whatever stumbles into it.
I thought it was pretty obvious that option 3 was going to have an ambush happen against us it's just that Ling Qi thinks she can play ignorant of it to get some info while stealthy preparing for a counter ambush.
We have an option that lets us at least TRY to get out of this fight. And if it fails, we aren't surrendering very much initiative. It isn't like the spiders, who are currently planning on ambushing us, would be super surprised by us attacking them, since they are planning on fighting us already.
It's literally choosing the more passive action, letting the attack happen with no attempt to stop it.

There's a lot of people, including yourself, arguing that option 3 will guarantee a fight. Not that it's more or less likely, but that option three is certain to lead to a fight.

I very much disagree with that sort of absolute framing, which is why I brought up the point about the option not actually being a guarantee of a fight in the first place.
 
Also whats this about taking them prisoner? What are we going to do with them, bring em with us on our diplomatic mission and then drag them back to the Empire afterwards? And in the mean time, when the White Sky ask us what we're doing with these spirits, we'll just be like "what? oh those, don't mind them! Anyway, about our negotiation..."

Since nobody has mentioned it yet, we'll be absolutely blowing our diplomatic mission if they have any relations themselves with White Sky. And what's the name of our spider cultivator friend back in Argent Sect again? I'm sure she'll be thrilled that Ling Qi's course of action after meeting a bunch of spider spirits was to immediately enslave them all.
 
One final argument and I'll stop.

Option three is--as has just clicked for me--practicing the skills that we'll be leaning on heavily in the coming major story arc, in a situation of genuine but controlled risk (As the ambush is unlikely to be a great threat to us given the tools we have to neuter it). Politely ignoring the other side's foibles while trying to learn something from them and wrapping our heads around a mindset that we have only the most rudimentary understanding of.

Option two may be effective, but it doesn't actually make us better at what we've set out to do in the long run, and I think it was brought up that if Ling Qi can grab another social B rank or two, her skills in that field shoot way up thanks to her Manipulation A-rank and her bonuses?
 
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Cai Renxiang will care a lot that we couldn't handle a relatively simple task and got into a fight with spiders for no reason. That's what you seem to be missing: we aren't an independent agent any more. We have a job, do you not care about getting it done? The Cai have not shown themselves to be all that tolerant of incompetence. The reality of the situation is that it does not matter who is at fault here, we still have to deal with it and achieve our ultimate objective for the team. If this entire mission goes pear shaped because we couldn't deal with the maze formation, we are going to be prostrated in front of Duchess Cai having to explain that we thought the spiders getting their just desserts was more important than her will.

Ling Qi: "Hi Lady Cai, we found a maze formation and tried to turn it off, but we couldn't figure it out and the spiders living there wouldn't help us."

Lady Cai: "Why did they refuse to help?"

Ling Qi: "Idk I slaughtered them all and didn't bother finding out lmao."

Lady Cai: "You're fired."
Yes, because voting a certain way will suddenly turn Ling Qi into a moron, that is exactly what will happen.
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I think what it comes down to is that some people here would prefer not to let the spiders make their own choices and face those consequences rather than use force and scare tactics, even if forcing them into submission would lead to no one dying or even getting hurt.
Other people think that force and intimidation are measures worth taking if it has a chance to prevent violence.

Of course there are other people who don't care about the violence factor, others who just want to loot the place for the shinies and what not. But I'm referring to the two sides butting heads here.

Also whats this about taking them prisoner? What are we going to do with them, bring em with us on our diplomatic mission and then drag them back to the Empire afterwards? And in the mean time, when the White Sky ask us what we're doing with these spirits, we'll just be like "what? oh those, don't mind them! Anyway, about our negotiation..."
Taking prisoners does not mean keeping prisoners, once fight is over, we can negotiate for their freedom.
 
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Adhoc vote count started by EternalObserver on Nov 20, 2020 at 2:03 PM, finished with 384 posts and 156 votes.

Fearmongering is irritating @LimitlessMemes
 
If this entire mission goes pear shaped because we couldn't deal with the maze formation, we are going to be prostrated in front of Duchess Cai having to explain that we thought the spiders getting their just desserts was more important than her will.
Why would any negotiation at all be required to complete the mission? We are not performing some extraordinarily complicated operation here, blowing up the thing that supplies power to the formation doesn't need special information.
 
My issue there is option 3 is effectively writing off the spiders as diplomatic partners. Ling Qi feels that the spiders are actually planning to attack them, and in part because that conflicts with her values, she's committing to get what information she can out of them and meet their attack with the same, when it inevitably happens. She's abandoning diplomacy. Again, this is just what Ling Qi thinks, but that's the mindset she's approaching the situation with in this vote.

If we're talking about the longer term project of Ling Qi's approach to diplomacy, then it's actually option 2 that has her tamping down on her reflexive distaste towards actions taken under different value systems. It's the approach which views them in a broader light and especially as a party still worth negotiating with. A thin-skinned response is the opposite of what you want.

This was one of the big issues with the fungus entity. She looked at the thing's nature and recoiled in distaste, which threw off all her efforts. She let her revulsion rob her of insight into its perspective that might have let her angle for giving up something less precious in negotiations.

The spiders are the same way. Planning an ambush for talks in bad faith understandably bothers her with her emphasis on sincerity, but this is in part an artifact of her not looking at the situation like a spider. If we want her to try to understand alien or offensive mindsets, then we need to actually commit to courses of action that put knee-jerk rejection to the side and pursue further rapport. She can't be an effective diplomat if she gives up whenever something steps on her metaphorical toes.
 
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