Sure, but that's no reason to let them continue.
We don't need to fight these spiders at all. We gain literally nothing from this fight. There's no treasure, no useful information, no cultivation prizes, and no social approval. This whole battle is absolutely pointless, and if the spiders are the only ones who know how deactivate the maze formation, we will have blown our actual mission by killing them. That is on top of the possibility that we are injured or poisoned or whatever in the coming fight. We have an option that lets us at least TRY to get out of this fight. And if it fails, we aren't surrendering very much initiative. It isn't like the spiders, who are currently planning on ambushing us, would be super surprised by us attacking them, since they are planning on fighting us already.
...
So, basically.
Your perspective is that we shouldn't even
try to get them to turn it down, except through naked threat of force, correct? Because they're too dumb to be tricked, smart enough to recognize the threat implicit with being an agent of the Cai, and once they commit to moving, they will fight to the death and not even try to make peace? But if threatened hard enough out the gate they'll give us whatever we want?
If your perspective is that they will automatically attack unless intimidated first and will fight to the death once committed... Uh...
Like I said, it is
really weird that you think approaching an ambush predator and screaming "I KNOW YOU'RE OUT THERE COME OUT AND FACE ME" is going to have it... Cower before you and offer you whatever you want at your whim.
This fiction of "Option two is the only peaceable approach" is
straight up ridiculous. Because it completely assumes that these are both inhuman (In which case we must assume they will automatically attack if they have advantage), but also react to threat displays like humans might (By begging for their lives and safety)
Which is it? Are they beasts who will ravenously attack because meat and intrusion on their territory? Are they people who can be convinced not to attack? You
can't have it both ways when we have no contact with these things and no idea how they actually think.
Because guess what? Spirits don't think like humans is a constant running theme, and the ones that don't regularly interact with humans can't even convincingly fake it like the ones that do socialize with humans can.
Christ, this vote is ridiculous. The ridiculous fiction of "Actually option three is the most hostile approach" is a
hell of take based on literally a handful of demagogues imagining it up and then pushing that narrative without pause.