Rough vote-shape proposal. Potentially insufficient diplomancing, but I'm in a direct kind of mood tbh.
[] Be straightforward with the woman "Lynesse Hightower, you are, from what little I saw, a very clever woman who, because she was born in Westeros, has been prevented from using her mind to the fullest (I can't imagine the frustration). So I'm not going to bother trying obfuscation. Yes, I am hopeful that with your aid I can successfully reach out to your brother at some point in the future so as to reduce the loss of lives as much as able. "
//get that out of the way, (broad reasoning due to war vs westeros, war vs citadel, war vs Ithilid), (if she pushes tell her that the situation is more complex than can be explained in a short conversation, i suppose)
-[] For your own prospects in the meantime, I have two main suggestions I think you might find worth considering, either
apply* to join the scholar(i)um, and study magic (which is tremendously handy in day to day life, and will open many doors), or alternatively, we are opening a place of higher learning in a few months to study various non-magic topics, beginning with economics and then expanding available classes to include [uhhh, art?]
-[] Of these are just suggestions, take some time to see Sorcere's Deep
-[] Something about money or living expenses (can she cover that? should we? If she feels awkward, we can just say "consider it a zero interest loan, that your kin can cover after you have had a chance to reunite with them", I suppose)
*Now here is where I have a problem with my vote. As I see it, being able to cast wizard spells of the first level is just... crazy useful for life. Being a mage opens so many doors that were closed before, and is imo, great. But I am hesitant to over-promote as she might not meet Taena's standards. Dunno.
YES! I PUT AN 'I' IN SCHOLARUM! what 'cha gonna do?
Also, I hope she gets into the Scholarum and is treated as a pre-mage like everyone else by the more skilled
reality warpers (wording specifically chosen to imply the difference between a skilled mage and a generic Westerosi noble).
AND THEY CAN EMBROIDER! Don't forget that vital skill, the importance to ALL OF WESTEROS SOCIETY that all noble ladies have at least some ability to EMBROIDER!
@thread any point in giving the woman a disguise ribbon or is that just not worth it/too late? Personally I feel that this (her being in SD) is something that we can't hide (for long) due to the Mormont end of things, but thought I should raise the idea incase others think it might be useful