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I may have missed that; do you know which sidestory it was in?It will be interesting to see if we are able to get the same peak behind the curtains of CRX that Sixiang got after the bandit arc. It'll also be interesting to see if Sixiang will be able to provide any insights on how to navigate the desirous dream from her insight into CRX, or if she will hold to her commitment not to communicate those insights even when pressured by time and circumstances.
And if, in that moment, they spied a crack in the glass, and peered at the ------- beneath, they would not say a word. Not because of the glower of the abomination the girl wore, or the threatening hiss of steel from the one at her side, but because it would be poor form to repay the one helping her Ling Qi by spilling secrets
I don't think it was a side story, let's see if I can't pull up the relevant text.I may have missed that; do you know which sidestory it was in?
Okay guys, both to give me more time to work on this update in particular, and to get things back on track there will be no update today, but we will be resuming the tuesday friday schedule in the coming week.
She can do bothI can't tell if Suyin is aiming to be a necromancer or spider/bug queen, either way she's going to be extremely useful to someone in the future. Hopefully LQ can convince CRX to employ her.
Li Suyin is going to be staying in the sect. I suspect for the entirety of her career. The Argent Sect has a fantastic Talisman and Production department under Elder Jiao, which Li Suyin would likely enjoy the benefits of participating in given that she is developing into largely unknown territory with the experimentation of the impurities and the resources found below the surface. The Bao likely have some measure of such materials, given the hints we have received, but it is unlikely that Li Suyin will be able to, or even benefit from, their insights with the direction she is heading in.I can't tell if Suyin is aiming to be a necromancer or spider/bug queen, either way she's going to be extremely useful to someone in the future. Hopefully LQ can convince CRX to employ her.
I know this, but I also want LQ to grow a bit more emotionally before getting into shipping wars
LQ's youth can't be normal because she was traumatized and hasn't dealt with it. The first person to prove they're safe/comfortable to her are likely going to be around a VERY long time. I'd prefer for her to get some therapy or something but she's too busy play spirit mom and denying that role too.The way you're talking about this, it seems that you want her to be like those anime characters? The kind that only ever dates one person, and ends marrying that person.
I figured we were going for a more realistic/healthy romantic approach.
why can't part of LQ's youth be normal?
LQ's youth can't be normal because she was traumatized and hasn't dealt with it.
You're misrepresenting what I'm saying.... So I was right?
We know what she had to deal with in her past, but at this point it seems that you are using circular logic to have those events define that part of her life forever, and I just don't understand... why?
People are using her trauma as a blanket reason to make her emotionally unavailable for romance, but at the same time, she can't "deal with it" because she isn't allowed to mature that way by questers.
"Part of her youth" can be normal if she's allowed to explore, make mistakes, and grow past what she had to live through on her own.
I don't see why we need to have her be saved by a hypothetical perfect individual in the future. Or maybe there's actually something to her situation that appeals to many, which is why she's kept the way she is.
The questers don't have as much control over Ling Qi's actions as you might think. A prime example is the lake scene. That wasn't a vote.... So I was right?
We know what she had to deal with in her past, but at this point it seems that you are using circular logic to have those events define that part of her life forever, and I just don't understand... why?
People are using her trauma as a blanket reason to make her emotionally unavailable for romance, but at the same time, she can't "deal with it" because she isn't allowed to mature that way by questers.
"Part of her youth" can be normal if she's allowed to explore, make mistakes, and grow past what she had to live through on her own.
I don't see why we need to have her be saved by a hypothetical perfect individual in the future. Or maybe there's actually something to her situation that appeals to many, which is why she's kept the way she is.
The questers don't have as much control over Ling Qi's actions as you might think. A prime example is the lake scene. That wasn't a vote.
There have been no votes to have Ling Qi explore this "normal youth" you want her to have. More often than not though the questers have voted for Ling Qi to confront her trauma. We voted for her to have the dinner party. We voted for to accept an exploration invitation. We voted for her to spend time with family.
But trauma isn't fixed in a single choice. Trauma isn't fixed in an afternoon. Trauma shouldn't be dealt with by a single vote.
The trauma that is preventing Ling Qi from having healthy relationships with any romantic levels is a problem the questers are trying to chip away at, but Ling Qi's views towards the situation is out of our hands. We just don't have the control to give Ling Qi that "normal youth".
Actually no, every time we pushed the possible romance, its more likely that she backlashes because she's simply not anywhere near ready, and doing so aggravates that issue further.Obviously we haven't been given a direct vote (which is for the best), but there has been times we could have nudged things that way, and it seems to me that when it comes to the romantic aspect of her issues, she's been made to artificially stagnate.
But it's true that I probably overestimate the amount of"control" we have.