Yeah, like, I see the thematic link there - but insisting on doing things ourselves could also just be seen as an ignorant overreaction. Like, it's not as if any option just drops things - it's just that the other lets the person with the correct expertise do most of the talking. Like, hell, even in normal meetings it would be normal for your boss to do most of the presentation and argument, only drawing upon you when specific domain expertise needs to be referred to.
And tbh I'm kinda as much about supporting Renxiang and her position as anything else?