A smaller enemy taking our bigger enemies while becoming a bigger enemy is still a bigger enemy. You switched on for another. In all honesty we need to see what the fuck they want with this truce and go from there. it is also been a month. Hardly a big deal right now.
Yeah but an enemy that's not going to go for heavy collateral damage, is preferable to an enemy that will do so, the Chosen grow more powerful than the enemies they defeat, but they don't grow nearly as dangerous to all we hold dear, if we lose a fight to the Illithids, our people will become livestock to be consumed, if we lose a battle to the Chosen, then at absolute worst we stay dead, and in all likelihood not even that will happen, and we will just be forced to cut an unfavorable deal with them to get revived, which while bad, is no where near what happen if we lose to any of the really bad enemies.
The thing is that they're encroaching heavily on Prime Material. They're not staying in the Feywild, and I highly doubt they'll accept being barred from Prime Material. They're here to stay, so we're approaching them with that in mind.
We would have to have different deals negotiated, but them swearing fealty isn't the only possibility, getting an agreement, that their members will follow our laws while visiting our lands, and an agreement, that any Fey that want something more than the occasional visit must swear fealty to us as well as the Fey king, maybe with an agreement, that they are obligated to stay neutral in disagreement between us and the Fey king.
You've misunderstood. It is a reasonable demand, because what Crake and I were talking about was restricting the kinds of pacts that they're allowed to make with mortals. No tricking into enslavement, no manipulating into servitude through controlling circumstances, etc. We're talking about protecting our citizens from the whims of bored fey, like that one asshole Prince of the Court of Stars who was enslaving random smallfolk.
Placing heavy restrictions on them is indeed reasonable, it's asking the Fey king to become our vassal that's unreasonable, that's essentially like demanding the Shaitan Sultana swear fealty to us.
Seeing as how we use these occurrences to our own benefit, either obtaining sacrifices, materials, items, or other loot/XP, I would say that it isn't. We actually just lose out on opportunities to resolve these to our own liking, gather resources from the encounters, and strengthen a foe who as yet has not been determined to be amenable to peaceful resolution of the overarching conflict upon which the ceasefire was founded.
We are in no way lacking for opportunities for loot and EXP, there's a million opportunities we aren't taking for every one we do, so if they weren't keeping a lid on things, it would just mean, we would have to do a lot of inconvenient cleanup with suboptimal loot.
If we want more opportunities for loot, we can raid the Efreeti, we can offer to help in the Githzerai's campaigns against the Illithids in Broken Elysium, and a lot of other things, all of which will get us both loot EXP and goodwill with our allies, whereas putting down problems in Westeros only get us Loot and EXP, not brownie points with our allies.