Also, since he is the candidate that will take more time to negotiate with, we have to start as soon as possible.
I agree that we should get the measure of the man and try to understand the likely sticking points that will arise- in particular what boundaries
he feels the need to draw- as part of understanding his offer.
Nah you dont invite a foreign power into an internal power struggle of your kingdom its makes ut only more muddy then it already is and im Team Otto gwayne all the way. Let it be Team green against Black and Red.
Well, the point of the Dornish marriage isn't to invite a foreign power into an internal struggle, because from our point of view the point of building up ties with Dorne and merging the royal lines is to bring them in without further bloodshed, not to strengthen us against rivals to the throne.
The trouble arises mainly if Daemon himself tries to step forward as a rival claimant who will take a hard line against Dorne, either in his own person or on behalf of his children with Laena (should they marry) and gets the backing of the Velaryon dragonriders.
Then we'd really be in the soup.
The grandmaester is mad imbecile of a healer who has allowed numerous members of the royal family to succumb to illness under his care.
Just to be clear, could you please provide your evidence for "mad imbecile" (you don't have to be an imbecile to think leeches work in a medieval setting, just
wrong in a way a lot of other people are wrong).
Also, the list of members of the royal family whose deaths are the current Grand Maester's fault? I'll grant that he's killing Viserys by inches and should absolutely be removed soon from the king's case, to be clear! But I'm not at all sure he's to blame for Aemma (if Aemma had a major hemorrhage or something there's not much anyone could have done in this era without killing her more directly given the limited surgical techniques), and I'm quite sure he's not really to blame for Jaehaerys (who was just so goddamn old at the time of death that one might reasonably call it inevitable). Who else is there during his tenure?
I think you have a pattern of taking basically valid lines of reasoning ("we shouldn't invest 100% of our effort into one project to the exclusion of all others" or "Dad needs a new doctor") and ramping them up until you're saying things that, uh, may not be factually correct. ("spending two actions in one turn on a project is gross overkill" or "the current doctor is a mad imbecile who has a huge body count")
I think we can say we royally fumbled our marriage plan through not quite understanding what Approaching Viserys meant.
No, actually, I think that's fundamentally bullshit because I think you are completely misunderstanding the plain text of what has been written by the QM.
Marriage negotiations are
negotiations. We are allowed to have negotiations with multiple people. We are allowed to invite Qoren to meet us in King's Landing and not commit to negotiations immediately. In Qoren's case it is
especially essential to have at least a preliminary idea of what he would be offering in negotiations and what his red lines are because that has a massive effect on how desirable or undesirable he is as a marriage partner.
You seem to be under the impression that by talking to Viserys we have somehow put an end to the entire question and are now essentially "voting on who to marry" in all but name. It is not so and Teen Spirit has told us it is not so, in so many words.
Please stop calling other people "ridiculous" when you plainly do not understand what they are doing and why.