Rhaenys has a good reason to be Skeptical, as the one who's been passed over before. I do hope she'll come around to the believing in girlboss victory squad eventually (still haven't watched HOTD, idk how it went for her there), although that would just mean that she has a decent claim herself... anyway, that doesn't really affect my opinion on the Laenor marriage either way, surprisingly.
Pardon me if I'm wrong, but didn't Rhaenys in canon basically shoot herself in the foot by choosing
too good of a husband, I believe, because she liked him? Like, Jaehaerys was already an asshole, let's not lie to ourselves, but especially at the end of his life he would be worried because Rhaenys temperament IIRC is nothing like Rhaenyra, and unlike Rhaenyra, she's a proper lady and not a hunk that can and WILL kick your ass if you start talking shit about her not being Heir. Wasn't he worried Corlys would make the Iron Throne the Velaryon's in all but name?
Has there been any in-canon explanation as to why Rhaenys didn't just marry Viserys instead? Honestly knowing the man she would've wore the pants in the relationship anyways (lol) and it would unite both claims.
I suppose maybe she was just drinking her dad's kool-aid that, against all precedence, she would definitely get to inherit with no issues whatsoever and so it didn't matter who she married?
If it is the "order of things", it is only because Rhaenys let it be. She had and has a dragon. At the time of the Great Council, she was one of only two dragonriders in the whole wide world. She and Meleys would only have needed to go against Daemon and Caraxes upon Jaehaerys' death. If she had won that challenge, Viserys' claim would have crumbled to dust. Wherever the lords and lords paramount stand, whatever armies they bring to the field, it doesn't matter if one side has a monopoly on dragons. She could have gone to war against the Council's decision upon Jaehaerys' death. She chose not to. That is the only reason why it is the "order of things".
All my knowledge comes from the ASOIAF wiki and fics, but didn't Rhaenys in the show essentially held the Greens at Dragon-point at the very start if the Dance and she just went "bye"?
edit: what I mean to say, is Rhaenys personality even one to just decide "Treason it is then" and start straight-up a civil war? And also, did her and Meleys
ever actually got fighting experience, to jump straight to fighting Daemon, who rode her father's mount, back then? Like in the show she says something, I think, along the lines of "here we go again old girl" to Meleys but when would she have fought... I'm guessing during the Stepstones deal? Since Rhaenyra is a lot more of a natural fighter and even she wasn't allowed as a young girl to go fight