i'm for a elfcation, post waystone project. i think it makes the most sense to not leave for 3 months until things are set up to continue without our direct input. or in other words, once we have a prototype and distribution (manufacturing) plan. the latter part probably best uses the Vlag Great Boon, on account of the absurd number of low level runesmiths that would make the runic components (which are good but normally slow to make because there arent many who can make them, even if the designs are simple by dwarven standards) relatively cheap to manufacture.
im also 100%, unironically in favor of Father-Elfcation. on account of the fact that i find the reasoning for the lady being the second daughter to be convincing, even if it's mostly lighthearted speculation. at the very least, going over with the Father aspect would allow us to confirm negative results on any of the elven pantheon members we check being the daughter. so we could then look elsewhere. at best, we have an in with the lady, and thus all of brettonia for the second stage waystone roleout (and future world saving projects).
we also dont need the other aspects for anything. the Gambler would be good for 1-2 things, but elfcation seems like a anti-dark elven murder break (a break that involves murder, not a break from murder) and the Gambler is less good at the fighty stuff. The Protector would give us more positive rep in the region and possibly all over Ulthuan but it mostly reinforces a best possible interpretation of our actions. hopefully, our competence will be able to speak for itself. even without widespread recognition, we would still have our bonds with whomever we fight with directly and that matters more (and we would have even without the Protector), in my opinion anyway.