In favor of Oswald:
@BoneyM has Mathilde ever been hit on? The human men in K8P are all adventurers of some stripe or another and are lacking in women. She's fabulously rich and powerful. Surely there's a daring bravo somewhere around these parts willing to brave her reputation?
Never by anyone worthy of more than her scorn.
...also pretty close to never, period. She's never not broadcasting with her appearance that she's a wizard and that's terrifying to some and intimidating to others, even among those that don't know her reputation.
I like to think Oswald made an awkward approach or two, and Mithilde never caught it, because too awkward.
-Lady Mathilde! You're a magnificent warrior, maybe you can give me a lesson or two on fighting.
-What's your preferred weapon, Oswald?
-Halberd, of course! People tell me it's too heavy for dungeon warfare, but my father, Oswald, used to say "Heavy is good, heavy is reliable"...
-Sorry, I'm only good at swords. Got to go!
*Oswald pouts*
-Lady Mathilde! So good I've met you! You see, there's that greenskin band throwing boulders from a cliff over Death Pass that we can't reach with cannons or arrows. I want to clear it out and wouldn't say no to a wizards' help!
-Sounds great! Ducklings, I've got a job cut out for you!
*Oswald pouts*
-Lady Mathilde, I've brought you halfing pie and ale you asked for. Humbert's got sick so I thought, why not me? How are your studies? Great chair, by the way. I'm hungry too - mind if I join you?
*Mathilde snores*
*Oswald pouts*
-Lady Mathilde! Did you notice that mountain clover on the southern side of Karag Lhiune has already blossomed? Here, I brought you flowers.
-Oh, Oswald, you've confused me with Panoramia, she's the flower wizard. I'll tell her to check it out.
*Oswald pouts*