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Okay, a couple things.
First, initiating a massage like that is sexually charged. Touching someone "just to massage them," offering "massages," etc has a significant degree of sexual baggage that a lot of other actions don't have.
Second, I find the "she offered himself to him earlier, so it's okay now" part really creepy. You can't just give someone a raincheck like that in a relationship as shallow as Paul and Jade's. If they were in a deep, active relationship right now, it wouldn't be creepy. But they're not, they said "maybe we'll enter into a relationship later" and they need to actually negotiate what that means, at least implicitly, in a reasonably calm setting before Paul goes around touching her like that.
Making assumptions about implicit consent leads to fucked up situations. If there was even one instance of them meeting and agreeing to enter into a relationship (recently, not two months ago with no contact since then), then it would be perfectly fine to surprise Jade like this. I wouldn't even demand Paul got permission or consent or whatever, romantic gestures are a normal part of dating and for weird ninja people "I took care of you normal masseuse and mimicked him with my superpowers" could be a fine romantic gesture, there just needs to be at least a cursory check-in before you go straight to something like this.
First, initiating a massage like that is sexually charged. Touching someone "just to massage them," offering "massages," etc has a significant degree of sexual baggage that a lot of other actions don't have.
Second, I find the "she offered himself to him earlier, so it's okay now" part really creepy. You can't just give someone a raincheck like that in a relationship as shallow as Paul and Jade's. If they were in a deep, active relationship right now, it wouldn't be creepy. But they're not, they said "maybe we'll enter into a relationship later" and they need to actually negotiate what that means, at least implicitly, in a reasonably calm setting before Paul goes around touching her like that.
Making assumptions about implicit consent leads to fucked up situations. If there was even one instance of them meeting and agreeing to enter into a relationship (recently, not two months ago with no contact since then), then it would be perfectly fine to surprise Jade like this. I wouldn't even demand Paul got permission or consent or whatever, romantic gestures are a normal part of dating and for weird ninja people "I took care of you normal masseuse and mimicked him with my superpowers" could be a fine romantic gesture, there just needs to be at least a cursory check-in before you go straight to something like this.