"Women are not prizes to be gotten. Jade is an adult who can make her own decisions."
And why are you surprised in the slightest? Not only does it fit the mirroring motif of these latest chapters, it also makes sense that a person that is both willing and able to communicate and treat others with trust and respect is more likely to have successful relationships than those who don't. Being able to see emotions help, as does having an EQ above room temperature.
I never, ever said that she was. And if Jade had made her decision at some other moment I might be more amicable to enjoying this moment.
You know what would fit the mirroring motif of these last chapters? Grayven's Dr. Fate elucidating on why his behavior was hypocritical. If you want to get romantic about it, I felt that Adom's troubles with Isis provided the mirror for Paul's side. Instead we got... this.
But yes, it does make a great deal of sense that someone who is willing and able to communicate and treat others with trust and respect is more likely to have a successful relationship. Which is exactly what Grayven did. It was pretty clear that if she'd ever asked about his plans for the League of Shadows he would have told her.
Besides, there's truth to what was discussed by the anti-life. He didn't treat her as an equal. He didn't discuss with her before he turned her world upside down. That's some pretty basic shit. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with a guy that couldn't even be bothered to tell me that he was going to destroy my livelihood and entire support structure while betraying people I actually felt some loyalty to.
It was made pretty clear that he would have told her his plans if she'd asked about them, and it was an honest mistake that he assumed she already knew. Mistakes like that happen, it doesn't mean he wasn't treating her like an equal. In fact, prior to Grayven's blunder they were an amazing couple, and please don't try to invalidate their entire relationship just because the last few moments went poorly. He did treat her like an equal. His undercover work messed with things a lot, as they do, but she had for more equality in this relationship then any bond girl.
Grayven started a relationship with Jade then spent time with her. After which he destroying her life, causing her to dump him.
Paul spent time with Jade, got her into a stable and independent life style and now has the option to begin a relationship.
But when you put it like that, it does make more sense. The problem isn't that Grayven didn't talk about his plans with her. The problem is, he didn't talk about what would happen after. That is rather important, and he should have talked to her about what would happen after the Leagueof Shadows was disbanded. I can understand why he didn't; he is as oblivious as Paul, and probably assumed talking with her about what would happen after they were married counted as talking about what would happen after the Shadows were destroyed. But that is a more legitimate complaint, and does hint at something being wrong with their relationship. But only a hint.
Point of order: Paul has put a vast amount of time and effort into Jade, arguably more than Grayven. He captured her then proceeded to rebuild her life from the ground up, being with her every step of the way.
And does that really sound like he's treating her as an equal? Paul treats Lex Luthor like more of an equal than Jade in Paragon. Yes, he has devoted a great amount of time into Jade, even making regularly scheduled visits to prison, whereas sometimes Grayven wouldn't speak to Jade for weeks due to their undercover work. But that doesn't mean Grayven hasn't devoted as much or more time into Jade. And he did it because he loved her, not because he was worried she'd go off the deep end if he stopped holding her hand.
Stop being butthurt. Or try to be slightly less obnoxious about it if you can't resist. Start by not imagining someone's painful death, or at least have the tact not to mention your fantasy, you absolute numpty.
I do apologize for the obnoxiousness. Zoat if you're reading this, I wasn't actually fantasizing your death, I just wanted to provoke a debate.
Because nobody's talking about this, and really, am I the only one who sees anything wrong here? Let's stop comparing Paragon to Renegade, (even though I think that's exactly what Zoat wanted when he sent a disrobing Jade in from out of nowhere so soon after the terrible Jade break-up) and look at Paragon for its own merits.
They are good friends, yes. But Jade is choosing now, after a murder plot and before he leaves the planet for a year to... well, since Paul is oblivious we don't have WoZ as to what she wants exactly, but we can be sure to call it an advancement on their relationship. If she's trying to form and actual romantic relationship, then she chose a terrible time for it. Just after most of his world was torn away, in fact. Just after he quit his job because he couldn't bear the chance of losing it. He's saying goodbye to all of his friends, and she decides that this is how she wants her goodbye to go?
And there wasn't even a hint of this beforehand. Not a single sideways glance to the possibility that Paragon Jade might be interested in her Paul for more than just friendship. Can anybody honestly say that they saw this coming? If we didn't have a Renegade relationship with Jade, would any of you have even considered that she might be main love interest in paragon? That is Katniss and Gale levels of awkward shipping.