You know they would be worried, but that's because they themselves have this attitude, the same thing we saw in Jaromila's story, that the least slight must be repaid 100 times over and that nobody is allowed to let anything go, ever.
Contrast to Ling Qi's feelings that she'd prefer to move on and never think about those people again. And you know what, being able to have that attitude makes Linq Qi a good emissary in ForgeLand! No wonder Renxiang started to reconsider Ling Qi's role. A shadow and sneak is great, but you know what's better? A representative you can send out on missions who doesn't have a Way that forces them to obsess over every insult. Being able to Let Shit Go is a good talent to have.