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I suspect it's what some powers do with some people, because when all you have to make holes with is a drill bit, it's a lot easier to accommodate round pegs than square ones. So when you get a square peg... you whittle it down into round.Oh is that what the powers that be do with all the people sent to them? Don't give a shit about what their power is supposed to do they just force fit them into a mold by diverging in ways they want? Like how they were initially going to send Lilly to a temple and force her to heal and only heal until that's all she could do despite her other abilities? Wow that's fucked up even if you get the power of your dreams and it's super useful you're still forced into basically bending it to fit your master's whims.
On the other hand, this may depend heavily on social status, gender, and other factors.
Women aren't respected, so "just shovel the girls into the places where we need warm bodies with vaguely applicable Ethoi" is probably fairly common.
[spits in disgust]
Nobles are probably encouraged to develop their Ethoi along more "you do you" lines, simply because they're under less pressure to conform. And because on some level, society has a tacit expectation that they'll have useful, effective powers that make it easier for them to rule, so institutions will tend to evolve to enable that.
People with frontline combatant Ethoi, be they male or female, probably get more freedom to develop, though. Simply because raw effectiveness is likely to override other factors on the battlefield. Furthermore, the sheer diversity of Ethos threats makes any concept of standardization or formation fighting into something of a joke unless it's specifically enabled by someone else's Ethos (e.g. that Singer lady).
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It's like, on the broadest scale of social organization, society itself shapes women to take the [Service to Man] Ethos; I suspect most smaller-scale organizations within society are doing something similar, with varying degrees of intentionality and overt awareness of what they're doing.