The Old Gods chessgame only functions vs the Great Other. It is not a move-countermove game with the Seven, mainly because if the Seven actually managed to pin the Old Gods down, especially early in the quest, they'd have torn them to pieces.
They've been nothing but reactive. We've seen no great plans laid out and completed, no real forward movement, and no support from their divine sponsors beyond 'here, power!' that could only grow slowly. Ritual magic dedicated to the Seven could have given them allies that could do far more than another human could. More than that, gods like the Seven have got to have Divine Heralds. I'm honestly just waiting for one of them to show up at the Conclave and spank us in social combat if we try to intervene. At least that would show that the Seven give a damn about their words.