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[X] [Alicent] Kiss Her
"Oblique attack tactics ain't exactly straight."
If we marry Harwin, our second child will eventually inherit that monstrosity, so as the doting mother she is will feel compelled to make it livable for her child...Harrenhal's problematic-ness is overstated, we'd live most of the time in the Red Keep and maybe a few months here and there on Dragonstone, and needn't visit Harrenhal much at all. We certainly don't need to divert crown funds to its upkeep. Much more problematic is having our husband on a timer before he is kinslain.
Why would you think that?
From what we have seen in the show Harwin was not jealous of Laenor being the King Consort, that his children called Laenor father, or that he would never be anything more than Nyra's secret lover... You can say many things about Breakbones, but he doesn't seem like the jealous kind of guy.
Unlike a mega-magical curse that is basically certain to exist, that one seems much more preventable. Of course, the curse will then probably strike in another form. Due to the above, if Larys or Aemond don't kill them all, House Strong will go extinct some other way.Much more problematic is having our husband on a timer before he is kinslain.
I do strongly reject the idea that there's a best marriage match.
To be fair, Janos Slynt was a participant in an extremely volatile period of Westerosi politics and his overall faction's politics were a snakepit. It's quite possible that Harrenhal didn't need to do a damn thing to ruin Janos Slynt, for Slynt to nonetheless wind up ruined.If we somehow manage to only be de jure ruler and never actually going there we might also be fine, but I don't think that would happen, either. Plus, Janos Slynt never even set foot in Harrenhal and still ended up dispossesed.
I mean, on its own, that is true, but as part of that wider pattern that is clearly above single-case explanations... well, as part of that this probably means we should be wary of mere de jure ownership, too. Plus, as Fanhunter points out, one of our kids would inherit the place anyway, and probably wouldn't then just stay around at the royal court.To be fair, Janos Slynt was a participant in an extremely volatile period of Westerosi politics and his overall faction's politics were a snakepit. It's quite possible that Harrenhal didn't need to do a damn thing to ruin Janos Slynt, for Slynt to nonetheless wind up ruined.
...I think I'm convinced.I mean, on its own, that is true, but as part of that wider pattern that is clearly above single-case explanations... well, as part of that this probably means we should be wary of mere de jure ownership, too. Plus, as Fanhunter points out, one of our kids would inherit the place anyway, and probably wouldn't then just stay around at the royal court.
...come to think of it, even Harwin's bastard sons all died in canon, to complete the extinction of his house. Yeah the curse could conceivably screw up even our dynastic considerations. Like, we win the war against a half-brother and then he inherits anyway because the Harrenhal curse strikes or something like that. That would be very ASOIAF, after all.
To be fair, Janos Slynt was a participant in an extremely volatile period of Westerosi politics and his overall faction's politics were a snakepit. It's quite possible that Harrenhal didn't need to do a damn thing to ruin Janos Slynt, for Slynt to nonetheless wind up ruined.
...I think I'm convinced.
Unless Alys Rivers can sell us on a method for beating the curse or something, best to just not take chances.
I mean, on its own, that is true, but as part of that wider pattern that is clearly above single-case explanations... well, as part of that this probably means we should be wary of mere de jure ownership, too. Plus, as Fanhunter points out, one of our kids would inherit the place anyway, and probably wouldn't then just stay around at the royal court.
...come to think of it, even Harwin's bastard sons all died in canon, to complete the extinction of his house. Yeah the curse could conceivably screw up even our dynastic considerations. Like, we win the war against a half-brother and then he inherits anyway because the Harrenhal curse strikes or something like that. That would be very ASOIAF, after all.
Honestly, the best way of dealing with the curse of Harrenhal is simply to move House Strong's seat to another unoccupied place.....I think I'm convinced.
Unless Alys Rivers can sell us on a method for beating the curse or something, best to just not take chances.
I am firmly against even trying to conquer Dorne... I mean we know that we will have to fight a civil war in the next 20 years or so, why waste thousands of lives and resources in trying to conquer Dorne?It made things easier for the curse.
I have also come up with a use for Larys Strong. If we conquer Dorne, we should install him as our Warden of the Sands (Governor of Dorne). If Larys screws up he will either die or we have an excuse for executing him. If he does well, Dorne will be pacified.
That is the beauty of him being available as a romance option is that we can probably go poly with him and Alicent... So there won't be a lack of emotional intimacy there.Yes, but the difference is that it was in fact him who was Rhaenyra's "love interest". The one she had chosen, the one she loved (or close enough to it). Laenor was just a political marriage with zero intimacy, everyone knew that.
But here, it is Alicent who is our love interest. The one our heart belongs to. If he has genuine feeling for us, this might in fact be way worse for him than the situation with Laenor. Basically, he would be here what Laenor was in canon, and Alicent would be what he was in canon. That is a rather large difference, and if he has feelings for us that might lead to jealousy.
/E: Basically, we know he isn't jealous about official status, but he might be about emotional intimacy. Especially if he desires that emotional intimacy for himself.
Why? He and his brother are pretty huge assholesThere might be others, we just haven't thought of yet.
I was pretty big on Tyland Lannister at one point.
I think poly availability isn't assured for any candidate with only Qoren with higher chance accepting with his cultural value.That is the beauty of him being available as a romance option is that we can probably go poly with him and Alicent...
Why? He and his brother are pretty huge assholes
Okay, so current status of the potential husbands:
Laenor: we never even talked to the guy in the quest, and his dad refused to let him come progressing with us
Harwin: cursed, also seemingly the least suitable to be a beard, but enthusiastic
Gwayne: making good points while sounding like an ass
Qoren: never met him at all, won all the points he has through geographical means
That's a longshot at best. Probably untenable.That is the beauty of him being available as a romance option is that we can probably go poly with him and Alicent...
I think poly availability isn't assured for any candidate with only Qoren with higher chance accepting with his cultural value.
I think poly availability isn't assured for any candidate with only Qoren with higher chance accepting with his cultural value.
Tyland is some kind of more principled, Jason in other hand is more repugnant.
That is why we will need to talk and evaluate every option...
It is pretty much inevitable that Rhaenyra will have to be married with someone by her early 20s at the latest, and once we do we will have to start produce heirs (and since each child is a potential dragon rider we won't settle with a heir and a spare)...Forget the men, what about Alicent? Yeah, she is making progress about shedding her prim and proper upbringing, but she isn't just clay to be formed in our hands. With some things she might never be okay, and that is fine, too.
It is pretty much inevitable that Rhaenyra will have to be married with someone by her early 20s at the latest, and once we do we will have to start produce heirs...
Romantic exclusivity is very much an option. Rhaenyra can't opt out of (some amount of) sharing a bed with her husband unless he's Laenor (and that just comes with the necessity of bedding another man orrr a lot of awkwardness), but she can choose not to let him into her heart, and not to partake in any romantic activities with him.Alicent is not dumb, so she must already know that if we wants to remain in a relationship with Nyra in the coming years exclusivity is not an option...
Dunno, maybe he had a romance where he was the one left behind after the passion ended and Gwayane was surprised and a bit jealous that Nyra and Alicent relationship is clearly on going?By the way, does anyone think they have a handle on what's going on in Gwayne's head in the last conversation? He seemed... weird, as noted, kind of off, offputting, that sort of thing.