Yeah, I mean, I like Xuan Shi! If we hadn't already set up this thing with Suyin I'd be all over him!
(well, ok, I'd actually vote for Mother here as the most time-sensitive and important option, but Suyin would be way down the priority list)
But we did. And that matters.
I'm totally willing to not do more Suyin social after this. She doesn't need it. She's established as a background friend in Ling Qi's story who will turn up of her own volition.
But, you know, given that we have already promised to do this and have a timetable, made even more important by Ling Qi's current issues over whether or not she's a good friend, Suyin should absolutely be done now.