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- Dreamland
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- She/Her
[X] Find a way to broach the subject, and figure out what he wants. You don't want him to misinterpret things.
...I'm going to need you to explain that. I've always thought of LQ as leaning Yin, especially after incidents like the CRX talk, the nightmare incident, and the Wu Jing talk. She's gotten a bit more yang recently, but not that much.
I originally hoped that Qingge would be someone LQ could go to for advice for this sort of thing...but it seems that Mom's baggage colors her own perception of men in the same way as LQ, just as much. Of course I expected Qingge to have a lot of trauma associated with men in general but... I guess I was a little too optimistic in hoping she might be more impartial. Its kinda crazy that her mom could suspect LQ would think men to be anything other than dangerous, given what LQ had witnessed as a child and the environment she was raised in. However parents often underestimate how much children understand and remember. She didn't have the luxury worry about LQ's mental wellbeing until 1.5-2 years ago and since then...LQ has become a powerful cultivator. I'm sure in Qingge's eyes, her daughter seems to have no trouble leaving the past behind."Ling Qi please tell me that you have observed propriety," her mother cut her off with a pleading voice.
Ling Qi's eyes flew open at her Mother's implication and she gave her a hurt look. "Mother! Of course I haven't done anything like-like," she couldn't even put it into words.
Ling Qingge squeezed her eyes shut, taking a deep breath. "I am sorry, Ling Qi. I only…"
Ling Qi frowned, looking down at her hands. She tried to see things from her Mother's perspective. It probably looked like she had been concealing something. Given everything in their lives, could she really blame the older woman? "...I understand how dangerous men can be. I do, Mom."
Ling Qingge didn't reply at first. "I hope that you do, but your interactions with that young man gave me doubt."
"Xuan Shi?" Ling Qi asked in confusion. They were friendly enough, but he was…
"Ling Qi, even I could see that he held an interest in you," her Mother chided. "Are you truly saying that you were not making use of that?"
Ling Qi gave her a horrified look. Her Mother examined Ling Qi's face, and then slowly lowered her face into her hands.
They both sat in awkward silence as the evening song of the crickets began.
"I do not think that he is the sort of man to perceive… obligation from favors such as this," Ling Qingge finally said, raising her head. "But Ling Qi, please exercise further caution in the future."
They basically have exactly the same attitude, but with different nuances.Once again, I am not criticizing Qingge here. I feel bad for her. In hindsight, its certainly not surprising that she has this attitude.
However, LQ is still gonna have to find someone else to talk to for the immediate future about these matters, while she works on her relationship with her mom.
Gu Xiulian, why did you have to go...
*squints*I'm actually fine with either option, partly because both seem highly amusing. However, this is the more proactive approach of the two, which neatly embodies Ling Qi's strongly Yang tendencies and themes.
bareIt was mostly are of decoration, and here the formations on the polished wooden walls were openly visible.
I guess I kinda want a Ling Qi that's more balanced and less Yang.[X] Find a way to broach the subject, and figure out what he wants. You don't want him to misinterpret things.
I'm actually fine with either option, partly because both seem highly amusing. However, this is the more proactive approach of the two, which neatly embodies Ling Qi's strongly Yang tendencies and themes.
"Do you think I'm cute, Xuan Shi," Ling Qi asked in an accusing tone.Out of sympathy to both of them, my knee jerk reaction was to avoid the painful awkwardness to come and choose option #1. Its instinctively the first choice I would make in that situation but for that exact reason, I know its not a good idea. Avoiding things you fear just makes everything worse for all parties involved.
The socially awkward, avoidant part of me (and the awkward teen I once was) still grimaces at the sheer amount of awkwardness to come though...poor kids lol.
It's mooostly a joke. Mostly. There's a kernel of truth to Ling Qi's sometimes blunt and obstinate approach to social issues embodying traditionally Yang principles. In this actual circumstance, her planned approach doesn't seem to be strongly Yang-ish though, given it's worded as "Find a way to broach the subject". She's going to be trying some (friendly!) manipulation....I'm going to need you to explain that. I've always thought of LQ as leaning Yin, especially after incidents like the CRX talk, the nightmare incident, and the Wu Jing talk. She's gotten a bit more yang recently, but not that much.
That's awful, and you're awful. Take your funny and go!"Do you think I'm cute, Xuan Shi," Ling Qi asked in an accusing tone.
Xuan Shi's hat brim raised in surprise, "This one-"
"Am I adorable to you?"
"Th-"
"A precious treasure? A flagrant flower? An object of devotion and dedication, never to be betrayed or disappointed!?"
Ling Qi finally exhausted her increasingly severe list of charges, staring at the thickly garbed boy in apprehension.
"...Yes."
"Xuan Shi, how could you!? I trusted you," the girl exclaimed, fleeing into the night, her trailing tears evaporating into fading shadows, but the hurt of betrayal lingering in her heart.
Lol Idk what band-aid you're referring to, Bao is just as mystified by her as ever. No air has been cleared there.[X] Find a way to broach the subject, and figure out what he wants. You don't want him to misinterpret things.
Rip off the bandaid just like with Bao Myahehehe
The second sentence yes, the third sentence no. Both the textual depiction and out-of-universe versions of the math cabal were pretty clear about Ling Qi being able to afford this as long as it remains a one-off purchase - it's not hurting Ling Qi's future beyond the general form of picking a particular way and therefore closing future cultivation paths that applies to literally every decision from here on out.Hey look, the thing that I predicted happened just like I expected. Ling Qi splurging yet another small fortune for a probably superfluous piece of assurance, and Qingge noticing just how much Qi is sacrificing for this and calling her out on it. This is Qi's anxiety about her family going overboard and hurting her own future.
Given Kongyou's explicit preference for tragic stories, there's a real possibility that Xuan Shi's unrequited (as of 8 End) feelings for Ling Qi is another big draw for making a pact between Xuan Shi and Kongyou.They REALLY liked his willingness to do a last stand for relative strangers.
i believe he meant BaiLol Idk what band-aid you're referring to, Bao is just as mystified by her as ever. No air has been cleared there.